New Girl is a show that has situations that range from the plausible to the absurd, but the common theme is a group of friends that love and support each other through it all. And while Jess certainly teaches us valuable life lessons, her friends have plenty of words of wisdom too. Â
1. As you grow older, you too will become that cranky adult. Just remember, you were once their age.
2. Sometimes you need to put aside your own feelings and think about the other person.
3. Occasionally we all say things that warrant a dollar in the jar. Own your mistake and pay up.
4. Be aware that love isn’t always what we see on TV and in the movies.
5. We all need a designated day for sleep.
6. And sometimes we really need a day to just rest, relax, and catch up on our shows. This is totally acceptable every once and a while.
7. Honesty is the best policy. When something isn’t working out, sometimes you just have to tell the truth.
8. Just because you don’t succeed doesn’t mean you give in.
9. Don’t bottle up your emotions.
10. Sometimes you can’t ask questions. You just have to be there for your friends no matter how ridiculous the situation is.
11. Embrace the cycle of life.
12. Don’t go back to the ex. There’s a reason it ended.
13. Savor the little moments, like finally getting your food at the restaurant.
14. The most accurate description of PMS…
15.  Your opinions matter. Don’t let others prevent you from speaking out.
16. Do be aware of what certain drinks do to you.
17. Take pride in your last minute papers and rushed responses.
18. Face your problems head on.
19. Don’t settle.
20. And most importantly, embrace who you are no matter what others say.
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We may not be able to achieve Jess’s amazing hair, but we can still take away lessons from her and her friends.