As much as we like to joke about the limited subject matter within the music industry, not all songs are about love. The culture has steadily become more accepting of discussions regarding mental health, and musicians are filling the airwaves with songs talking about everything from depression to imposter syndrome. Itās refreshing to hear lyrics that contain a raw vulnerability and relatability, especially when youāre having a hard day yourself. Here are some of the best songs to listen to when youāre feeling a little low:
1. Groundhog Day– Em Beihold
Beihold exploded onto the music scene with a bunch of relatable songs regarding mental health, from āNumb Little Bugā to ā12345.ā āGroundhog Dayā approaches the dull transitory period of young adulthood in a unique way. The song perfectly describes feeling trapped in a repetitive, boring life where every day is identical. She feels left behind as her friends reach societyās life milestones, getting married and having children. āOh, itās easy to say Iām ok/ But this smile Iām wearing is fake,ā she sings during the chorus, āIām suffocating/ Living Groundhog Day/ Day after day, day after day/ I think Iām gonna break.ā Its catchy tune encapsulates the suffocating societal expectations that smother young adults as they try and find their footing in a world that seems to wait for no one.
2. Block me out– Gracie Abrams
āBlock me outā is a musical manifestation of the need to silence all of the negative thoughts that threaten to overwhelm us. Abrams expresses her desire to make her mind stop racing, describing her struggles with isolation and dissociation. āWish I were heavier now, Iām floating outside my body/ Itās not their fault, but Iāve found that none of my friends will call me,ā she laments, āUntil Iām left to myself, itās honestly kind of funny/ How every voice in my head is trying its best to haunt me.ā We often look for ways to distract ourselves, constantly searching for sources of entertainment, attention, or comfort, and this song perfectly portrays the negativity inside our heads that can drive us to extremes just to silence it.
3. ghosted my therapist– Rachel Bochner
Bochner also tackles the struggles of young adulthood, bingeing TV shows while taking medication with her coffee. She talks about the disappointing realities of adult life in comparison to her younger selfās imagination. āThought itād be easy but my vision board is way off/ Graduated college now I wanna quit my day job,ā she sings, along with, āI have to say at 24/ I thought Iād know a little more than this/ Maybe I shouldnāt have ghosted my therapist.āĀ
4. Healing– FLETCHER
FLETCHER has a knack for capturing the human spirit. In āHealing,ā she narrates her long journey to acceptance and closure. She makes it clear that healing is an extensive process and that sheās still working towards full recovery. But the songās positive tone is a breath of fresh air alongside its optimistic lyrics like āBreaking down doesnāt mean Iām broken/ Losing hope donāt mean Iām hopelessā and āI canāt erase all the things that Iāve done/ But all the mistakes made me who/ Iāve become.ā We all have our struggles, but itās encouraging to know that itās possible to come out the other side stronger than ever.
5. I Lied– Sophia Fracassi
Youāre probably all too familiar with habitually responding, āIām okay,ā when asked how you are. In fact, if someone responds with āTerrible. How are you?ā it tends to stun us. Fracassi tackles this very subject, describing her regret and wishing that she hadnāt put up such high walls. āI went and told you I was good/ Shouldnāt have told you I was good,ā she cries, āWhen I thought I never could/ I lied, I lied.ā
6. Loner– Maggie Lindemann
Lindemann is no stranger to belting out raw heart-wrenching hits. āLonerā is no exception, with the singer trying to convince herself that she likes being alone while simultaneously hating her tendency to self-isolate. āāStead of dealinā with my problems, Iāll just stare at the ceiling/ Avoidance never heals but this sure feels good,ā she sings, āI know I said Iād stop before I drown/ But I donāt like the thought of coming down.ā Despite the wailing chorus insisting that she likes being alone, itās extremely evident that the isolation is contributing to the decline of her mental health. Itās the perfect cycle of feeling awful and wanting to be alone, which only makes the feeling worse.
7. Real Problems– Kyd the Band & TAELA
This song is all about adversity making you stronger. The duoās voices work in tandem to build a strong anthem, singing, āIt took some real problems to make me stronger/ And see that trauma thatās been holdinā me back/ Every time Iāve fallen I got up quicker/ And my skinās thicker/ I aināt tryinā to hide that.ā They acknowledge that their struggles are valid, but that they wouldnāt have been where they are now without their difficulties. You never want anything bad to happen, but sometimes hard times put things in perspective and help you identify the source of your problems.
8. Taking up Space– Ariza & Julia Gartha
Ariza crafts a gorgeously soft track that matches Garthaās soft tone as she narrates her struggle with putting others first at the detriment of her own mental health. She grows weary of fading into the background as she constantly makes way for others. āIām a chameleon every day/ Iām sick of changing colors/ Shapeshifting always,ā she sings, āSo, why play the game?/ When itās rigged anyways/ Iām learning to be okay with taking up space.ā Thereās nothing wrong with being kind to people, but always putting yourself first can lead to burnout and other mental health issues. Gartha acknowledges her flaws and expresses her desire to become okay with ātaking up spaceā and prioritizing her needs.
9. 20 Nothing– OSTON
OSTON describes the phenomenon of feeling so much so passionately that you go numb. The numbness is so overwhelming that youāll do anything to feel something. To feel anything. āMelancholia wonāt last forever, kid/ Or maybe it will, youāll just kinda learn to live with it,ā she sings, āOh, itās just one foot in front of the other every day/ itās just one mess until I recover, but then again.ā OSTON captures the painful cycle of excessive emotion and the subsequent lack thereof in a way that strikes you to your very core.
10. Broken– Jonah Kagen
Kagen pens a passionate plea to a friend, begging for them to save him from himself. āOh please come bring me up, from my lowest, take me higher,ā he implores, āCan you see me through the ashes and the smoke?/ Iām lonely, itās been so long/ Since Iāve felt loved, smiled, felt strong.ā He admires his friendās confidence and self-love, but fears dragging them down with him. Kagan captures the sentiments of many suffering from mental health, needing someone to reach out and help them but afraid of being the cause of anotherās downfall in the process.