This article is written by a student writer from the Her Campus at MSU chapter.
On Oct. 31st, 2023, I turned 21 years old. I can now legally buy alcohol, weed, and tobacco products. But the most exciting part about turning 21 is being able to reflect on years past. When I was a kid I dreamed of becoming a “real adult”, and now I technically am. I am so grateful for the memories and experiences that I have gained throughout the years, so I have created a list of 21 lessons I have learned in 21 years.
- Even in devastating moments, there are still good parts of your life.
- Pretending to like what other people like is never worth it.
- Honesty is always the best policy… even when it gets you in trouble.
- However… a white lie once in a while isn’t the end of the world.
- Things that happen to you don’t define you, it’s how you react to them.
- You aren’t supposed to have everything figured out right now!
- Not all friends are forever, and that is okay.
- Make mistakes freely. They will always reward you with new information.
- Caring about what others think of you will only waste your time.
- Always acknowledge or say hi to people you know, you just might make their day.
- Never punish yourself for loving someone so much.
- Establishing a simple routine will improve your mental health.
- Take time to get to know yourself. It’s important.
- Your mental and physical health should always be your top priority.
- You do not need alcohol or drugs to have fun.
- Healing your inner child is a real thing!
- Journaling will always help, no matter what kind of day you’ve had.
- You deserve all of the good things that happen to you.
- Budgeting is very important (I’m still learning).
- Everyone’s body is different, so it is unfair to compare yours to someone else.
- Always listen to your intuition, you won’t regret it.
There are many things that I have learned in 21 years, but throughout all my experiences these were my top 21 takeaways. I am so excited to expand this list throughout the years as I meet new people, make new memories, and learn more about myself.