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Bittersweet Goodbyes: Embracing the Beauty of Graduation Season

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This article is written by a student writer from the Her Campus at TAMU chapter.

I think we can all agree that graduation season is such an emotional time. It’s not just about celebrating your successes, but it’s also about watching everything you have known and loved for the past 4+ years slowly come to an end. Saying goodbye to your best friends that were made along the way, who’s been like family, and experiencing all those “lasts”. The last home game as a student, the last late-night hangouts with roomies, the last walk to class, it hits you right in the heart. And if you’re not graduating, watching everyone you love walk across the stage can be just as hard-hitting. I mean, it’s hard not to feel emotional when it starts to feel like life is changing faster than you are ready for. 

But I have come to realize that even though it’s sad, it’s also just as beautiful as it is bittersweet. These goodbyes and endings mean you’ve had something special, something worth missing. And while it’s scary to think about what comes next, it’s also exciting to think about bringing all those special things into a new chapter of life. It should feel exciting to go to new places, meet new people, and make new friends because without the uncertainty of the future, none of those things would be possible. 

It’s okay to feel all the feels (I sure do) and let yourself feel sad about what’s ending, but don’t forget to also be excited about what’s to come next. I’ve realized throughout college that life is supposed to change, and graduation is proof that we are growing, smart, evolving, and stepping into a new chapter of life. So remember as best you can, that it’s not about what we are losing during grad season, but about taking all those memories with you as you continue to grow.

Faith Bryan is a 21 year old from The woodlands, Texas. She graduated from Highschool in Magnolia, Texas, and went on to study communications at Texas A&M University as a first generation Aggie. Faith is currently a junior, and plans on pursuing Law School following graduation.  She is a member of the Pre-Law Society at Texas A&M where she hopes to gain the necessary guidance needed to thrive in Law School post grad. She is also a member of Aggie Best Buddies, an international student orginziation dedicated to creating opportunities for one-on-one friendships and advocating for inclusion in all aspects of society. Faith also dedicates her time to writing articles for the Texas A&M chapter of the HerCampus magazine and is a involved committee member for the orginzation. She has been writing personal short stories for 6+ years, and has published two adcedmic analysis on topics pertaining to psychology and the world around us.  Faith enjoys spending her free time at home with the people she loves, cooking, shopping, reading, and going out to create memories with her best friends. She also enjoys being on campus where she can incorporate herself into the campus community that she loves and cherishes so much.Â