There is no good in Tinder, unless you’re looking for a quick and awkward hookup. Tinder matches two people based on age group, gender, and location. Nothing of the sorts guarantees a great connection. Without further ado, let’s jump into the confusing, weird and sometimes dangerous world that is Tinder. Â
Not everyone is who they say they are
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So, you’re telling me “he doesn’t even go here?” Yes, that’s exactly what I’m saying. Although looking for the best in people is a great quality to foster, it can also make someone naĂŻve. Just because Josh from Tinder has a Harvard sweatshirt does not mean that he goes to Harvard. Tinder is an app of catfish catastrophe. Be smart! If your gut tells you no, follow it. Â
Being swipe happy always ends badly Â
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What’s the worst thing ever? Swiping left on a hot guy. We’ve all been there. As you continuously swipe left on fives you accidentally swipe left on a ten. That was your chance at ultimate happiness, you could go back but is the 2.99 rewind worth it? Probably not. What’s worse than swiping left on a hot guy? Super liking a left swipe. Â
Guys say things that make you feel uncomfortable
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One friend who shall remain nameless said one guy asked her, “Are you a virgin?” If that doesn’t make you want to curl up into a ball and never speak to another man again, I don’t know what will! How do you just slip that into a conversation after knowing someone for a whole 12 hours? How do you normalize such a vulnerable question? Tinder is known as a hook up culture because of people like this who center their conversation on sex.
It is insanely addicting.
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Whether we like it or not in this age of Internet, dating apps are a thing. For all the girls out there who are obsessed with swiping, you are not alone. We all enjoy the feeling of a new match and a sweet message from a cute guy. It gives us a feeling of hope in a world where finding the one seems impossible. As Gretchen would say Tinder is “so fetch”, at least for now.