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To Those That Tell Myself (And Others) To Stop Cursing, and to Talk More Quietly

This article is written by a student writer from the Her Campus at Dickinson chapter.

In a public or private space

The words out of my mouth

They’re being hushed

They’re being pushed

To the side

To the edge of a cliff

All because

I’m speaking them too loudly

Too much

Too, me.

You say there are others around

“But the kids!”

As if the kids

Are not growing up

In an environment so fucked

We don’t want them to know yet

“The kids don’t know curse words, or what they mean!”

As if it is such a “bad” thing for a child to know or use a “curse” word

As if a child does not eventually hear it from someone else

But ya know, god forbid I am that person

Now really ask yourself,

“Why does society give certain words ‘bad’ meanings, but not others?”

Oh, but it’s too early for them, you say?

The concept of time is a social construct

And I am taking my time

The time that I have not had  

When I was silenced,

With my words

Pushed to the side and off a cliff

When I became too loud

Too nasty for you

Well, guess what?

I refuse to apologize

For regaining that time lost

As a child

As a young adult

In the classroom

At home

And in the world.

 

I refuse for myself and others to be silenced.