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This article is written by a student writer from the Her Campus at NCAT chapter.

Dear Inevitable,

I’ve given you enough time, I’ve given you enough love, I’ve given you so much of me that I have nothing left to give. It just sucks that at the end I still end up in tears. It’s inevitable. I’ve done nothing but want to love you, and you, and you, and him too. When life knocked me down I kept my head high and took the chance to love again and again. In the end I always had to comfort myself for their mistakes. It’s inevitable. Well I have news for all of you, when it’s over it’s really never over. You’ll go to sleep and wake up to a new day. When you cheated on me and lied, it’s wasn’t my job to make you stay. It wasn’t my job to stay there are be your “down chick” when you couldn’t be there for me. It wasn’t my job to be your everything when I meant nothing. I couldn’t let misery keep me down. I’m too strong to let these people get to me. These things happen for a reason, we should always accept them as beneficial. Your life shouldn’t be over when they walk out the door. It should be a new beginning. I definitely don’t have love figured out but I know what I want in life. I believe there are certain things we have to go through in our lives to be brought back to reality. To separate fake from real. It’s inevitable.

From Me, with nothing but everlasting self appreciation.

I am Alexis Hooper, President of the North Carolina Agricultural and Technical State University chapter of Her Campus.
Hi everyone! I am a sophomore at North Carolina Agricultural and Technical State University who should be majoring in Weddings, but is actually a Journalism & Mass Communications student with a concentration in Multimedia. Originally I am from Woodbridge, Virginia, which is about 30 minutes south of our nation’s capital. I have lived here all my life, but I’m not afraid to branch out and explore the world. This past summer I studied abroad in Sydney, Australia to engage and immerse myself in Australian culture. The experience was phenomenal and I’m already counting down the days until I can return that beautiful country. Check out my Tumblr, Instagram, Pinterest, and Facebook.