Let’s face it: Boys are intimidating and virtually every girl can agree with that, from fictional character Elle Woods to MMA fighter Ronda Rousey. But that doesn’t mean we should avoid them at all cost. I mean, how else would they be here? If they weren’t, life may or may not be a lot less complicated…. Here are some tips on how to talk to the cutie you’ve had your eye on for the last week, or month, or year.
Don’t Overthink It
It is so easy to make yourself a character in one of Shakespeare’s epic tragedies. To avoid driving yourself utterly insane and talking yourself out of doing what you want, just do it. Do not think so much about speaking to him. Remember that he’s just a human being with the same organs (well, possibly not a heart) as you.
Sike Yourself Out
Remember step number one, but go ahead, get crazy. You know you want to, so feel free to tell yourself all the possibly crazy scenarios that could happen if you were to speak to him. For example, he could tell you that instead of hanging out with you, he rather extract your brain and send it to Mars. Sometimes you need to hear how crazy you sound for you can calm down.
Always Value Yourself
Girlfriend, NEVER let a boy make you question your self-worth. Remember that you are fierce with or without him. Just sing “I Don’t Need a Man” by the Pussycat Dolls, take a bath, eat a box of chocolates, have a Netflix binge and call it a day.
Don’t Get Down
Regardless of how this play out, remember to not be so hard on yourself. There could be a plethora of reasons of why he’s not into you that don’t have to do anything with your appearance. He could be dating someone or could have just gotten out of a bad relationship. Just dust it off. Afterall, Fergie warned us boys just come and go like seasons.
Become A Pro
Sometimes the best prize is bragging rights. Go brag to your friends how you totally spoke to your crush like it was nothing because really… it is nothing. The easiest way to do something is to realize that things can only happen if an action has taken place. I think history has shown us that one too many times.