For those of you who donât know, the 10-carat-plus club is an elite group that one becomes a part of with an engagement ring that is ten carats or more. Google the phrase and you’ll find posts about it on Vogue, Facebook, Pinterest, and Trendolizer. While this âclubâ is apparently nothing new, I just recently came across the Vogue article that resurfaces every now and again to celebrate famous women who have the most extravagant engagement rings around. The article also has an attached slideshow of rings from various jewelers that you can purchase so, you too, can become part of the elite. On each slideshow a description of each ring is provided at the bottom. The slides clearly state the the price is given upon request because all of the rings are that expensive.
I completely understand why celebrities have such ornate rocks- they have the money to buy them! Thereâs nothing wrong with that, especially if thatâs the way your significant other wants to express their love. But we should not let these rings become the new standard of our #RelationshipGoals. Way too often society puts more emphasis on material goods rather than good itself, warping our perspective of what really is ideal. When we have so much desire for these âvaluablesâ we begin to do whatever it takes to obtain them, and the value of things that are truly priceless is lost. While you work hard to be able to get such luxuries, eventually, a point of desperation is reached and the jobs you hold and people you meet only become a means to an end.Â
You are not in a relationship to get a ring. And your loverâs love for you is not defined by the price or size of a piece of jewelry, car, or pair of shoes. Love has no price tag and the act of engagement itself is one human giving their life to another forever, and to me, thatâs pretty monumental.Â
The Vogue article also quotes designer Robert Procop saying, âa woman wants something unique, something thatâs special to her,â but when you’re part of the 10-carat-plus club, thereâs nothing individual about it. All of these women have the same boulder, on the same finger, for the same purpose: opulence.
This year, I encourage you to try to wean yourself off the desire to live like royalty. Instead, focus on the beauty that is all around us everyday. Appreciate your man or woman for the joy and companionship they bring you.
True beauty, after all, comes from within, and a sparkling personality is the shiniest piece of all.Â