Although Valentine’s Day is a completely commercialized holiday that isn’t quite friendly to the single ladies out there, there are plenty of reasons why V-Day should be seen for what society makes it out to be: a day of love.
V-Day is a time for couples to express how much they love their significant other. People can spoil each other with gifts and dates. It’s very cute, and a lot of people enjoy it. But why is there just one day out of the year when we celebrate and express love? If you love your S.O., then show them every day! Spontaneously make them breakfast in bed (preferably heart-shaped pancakes), or take them out to dinner. Watch cheesy movies together and buy him/her gifts. Whenever he or she pops into your mind, shoot them a text. Just show each other how important your relationship is. Since this is a women’s college, and we are strong, Boldly Baldwin women, it’s important to note that you do NOT have to settle for any less than someone who shows you this kind of affection on the daily.
This is a specific time to spend with your person. Whether there’s a holiday for that or not, you should dedicate time to your boyfriend or girlfriend every single day. Your person is the one who is going to be there for you no matter what. Take time to prove it! There shouldn’t be a day in your relationship where it seems like you’re taking each other for granted. Say “I love you” a thousand times, comb your fingers through each other’s hair, have a four-hour Skype session, do whatever it takes to prove that their love is equally important to you as it is them.
Now the main lesson, as aforementioned, is to remember that Valentine’s Day is a day of love. This does not mean that you have to be in a relationship to celebrate it. You could always go on a date with yourself or your friends! Throw a party—just have fun. (You can check out our blog for more ideas, too!)