Go to study hours. Most student organizations have some form of study hours, including sororities. Going to study hours is a great way to catch up on homework, and get to know your sisters better. Study hours are not meant for chatting about weekend plans, but they provide an opportunity to find out what your sister’s academic strengths are. Having an extra set of eyes scan over you paper or lab report before you turn it in is essential to catching basic errors.
Support your fellow new member. Bonding with your new member class is important. You are all going through this learning experience together. There are several ways to build strong friendships with your class. Get a group of girls together and make dinner while
watching, “Mean Girls” or “House Bunny.” Share what you’re excited about, what has surprised you about your sorority, and what you miss about home. Don’t be afraid to unwind and be yourself!
Use your planner. Using a planner allows you to foresee a scheduling conflict in advance, which gives you time to work out a solution. Bring a pen and planner to every chapter meeting and new member meeting. It may take time to figure out how to balance your academic and Greek commitments, but a planner will help you visualize your schedule. If you have a sisterhood retreat coming up on Friday, consider doing your homework for the following Monday early. Time management is one of the most valuable skills for a college student, especially a Greek.
Keep your family updated. For women who are first in their family to go Greek, your family may not know the basics about Greek life. Talk to your family about the Greek community at Mason, the core values you sorority upholds, and what sisterhood means to you. Your parents might have a hard time pronouncing Greek letters or understanding what “Shack-a-Thon” is, but they should understand why it’s important to you.
Organize your closet. Similar to recruitment, many sororities require specific attire for events and ceremonies. A business casual outfit, a modest black dress, and set of pearl earrings are must haves. Invest in a pair of basic black heels and a cocktail dress for semi-formals and smokers. A sister is always willing to share, so feel free to ask around for an extra dress or pair of cute heels. Check to make sure you have every outfit for future dates.
Save everything. Many sisters still have their clues from clue week, their dried flower petals from ceremonies, and new member gifts. Take time to savor these moments with your sisters.
Your new member process should be a cherished part of your journey to sisterhood.
Every sister remembers her first retreat, first all night study session, and first pair of letters. Your new member period will fly by, so enjoy every second!
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