If you’ve been keeping up with The Bachelorette, you may have noticed there’s a new girl in LaQuinta. Tayshia has officially become the new bachelorette after Clare’s exit, a historical first for the show. And it a welcome first it was; Tayshia has completely turned this disastrous season around, in every way. But, some have been more noticeable than others.
Tayshia is STUNNING. Kinda upsetting she wasn’t the bachelorette from the jump but i’m so excited for her #TheBachelorette
— Taylor? (@taylorcwils) November 11, 2020
Tonight #TheBachelorette finally started. Thank you @TayshiaAdams for being amazing and a wonderful human #clairewho #itshouldhavestartedwithTayshia
— Myah (@Myahgloom) November 11, 2020
The eliminations
This week, Jason was the first to go. He left after realizing he still had feelings for Clare, and Tayshia – being an absolute queen – accepted what he wanted.
SEE CLARE YOU BROKE JASON! Justice for Jason!!! #TheBachelorette https://t.co/8Ce5NnEDSJ
— Sauts (@Sautterdays) November 11, 2020
Man that trauma bonding Clare forced Jason to do really did a number on him ? Poor guy. #TheBachelorette
— Tomiwa. (@its_TOMIWA) November 11, 2020
We’ll miss you Jason! Hoping you’ll be on Paradise and find the love you deserve there.
But this elimination was so much better than Clare’s elimination of Brandon, which only happened because he knew nothing about her. She never took into account that he wanted to get to know her on his own terms and not through what social media or the tabloids say about her. And that’s how the men are now getting to know Tayshia – on their own terms, like how Brandon wanted to know Clare.
None of the men know a thing about her, and that makes this process super raw. For example, during her 1-on-1 with Brendan, he revealed that he knew nothing about Tayshia’s divorce, which she shared when she was on Colton’s season. It’s a fact the men would usually know if they’d been able to do their research ahead of time, so right off the bat, Tayshia is proving to us that if someone is eliminated, it’s definitely for a good reason.
The dates
The first group date was “Tayshia’s Splashball Spectacular,” as deemed by Chris Harrison. While this group date did have the men in speedos, it was a complete 180 from Clare’s sport date. Clare’s infamous dodgeball date had the losing men strip completely naked and walk home in their birthday suits. The Splashball date had the losing team walk home in speedos, no black bars required. You could also see the joy on the men’s faces during this date compared to the dodgeball date. They took the loss better, walking home feeling less humiliated and with absolutely no thoughts of sabotaging the winning team.
Why are almost all the challenges this season about humiliating someone (dodgeball, roasting, etc). Is that Clare’s definition of fun? #TheBacheloretteABC #TheBachelorette #BachelorNation
— Gossip gurl (@chitchatxoxo) October 28, 2020
Watching #thebachelorette and Clare is making the men remove clothing during a game dodgeball. Would that be okay if it were the bachelor and he asked women to remove their clothes? I don’t think so. Two way street. Neither should happen.
— Josh Dunham (@ImJoshDunham) October 22, 2020
Tell me this isn’t strip splashball #TheBachelorette
— ruby :) (@RubySchechner) November 11, 2020
What would Yosef think of speedo splashball? Let me guess… humiliating and degrading? #TheBachelorette
— Rozina Merchant (@Rozotron) November 11, 2020
The rose ceremonies
So if I remember correctly, Clare cancelled her rose ceremony not only to spend time with Dale, but because she believed none of the guys deserved a rose for roasting him. That was the night that she gave out two roses, one to Dale and one to herself. That moment will go down in Bachelorette history as one of the most shocking moments, so imagine my shock when in the next episode we skipped another rose ceremony with Tayshia. But instead of being petty, she didn’t think it was fair to kick anyone off when she didn’t even know them yet. My reaction?
WE?STAN?A?BACHELORETTE?WHO?GIVES?HER?MEN?A?CHANCE!!!! ???? #bachelorette #BacheloretteABC #BacheloretteNation
— Nicole Wojnicki (@HappyLilNerd) November 11, 2020
Tayshia: “I’m cancelling the rose ceremony…”
All Clare’s men: “AH DANG IT AGAIN?!”
Tayshia: “…because I am accepting all of you.”
All Clare’s men: “YAHOO!”#TheBachelorette #BacheloretteABC— Nathan Scoggins (@NateScoggins) November 11, 2020
The men
So as we all know, this season the men are an extremely tight bunch.
Jason’s goodbye with the guys was SO emotional ? these men were so close this season it’s unreal #TheBachelorette
— CiCi Caputo (@cici_caputo) November 11, 2020
watching these men form incredibly emotionally & physically vulnerable, open-minded, understanding,
kind-hearted, and loving friendships with each other is heartwarming as fuck you guys #TheBachelorette— Sam Prèvost (@_stupickles) November 11, 2020
Compared to Clare’s part of the season, you can definitely see the men are having more fun with Tayshia.I saw more frustration and anger with the men, especially when they were limited to getting to know each other by Clare. Remember when she yelled at the them for not going over to talk to her? You could see the shock on their faces, and poor Bennett even looked insulted when she said she had to leave the conversation to go talk to the guys. Now this could just be the way they edited it, but there’s another thing I have to point out, one you can’t really deny or blame on editing.
Clare paid all her attention to Dale. The four episodes Clare had on The Bachelorette, she paid attention solely to Dale. That’s how those episodes got dubbed “The Clare and Dale Show” on Twitter.
Did anyone watch the Clare and Dale show, oops I mean #TheBachelorette @BacheloretteABC
— Lisa G (@eslteach94) October 28, 2020
I’m really tired of the Clare and Dale show… girl it’s episode 3 and you already called him YOUR FIANCÉ. #TheBachelorette
— Mel (@_melanieelise_) October 28, 2020
Time to watch the Clare and Dale show #TheBachelorette
— Alyssa Williams (@Kisslyssx3) November 6, 2020
The Clare and Dale show was exhausting, no one wants to see this #TheBachelorette
— nabila (@sadtohear) November 11, 2020
not abc putting the clare and dale show in the middle of the episode bc they know no one would watch it if it was at the end #TheBachelorette
— Rosie DeFeo (@rosiedefeo) November 11, 2020
Tayshia has made two connections with Spencer and Brendan already. She’s actually getting to know these men and pay attention to what they’re saying. She even gave Eazy, one of the guys that she has no confirmed connection with as of yet the group rose. But you know with Clare, Dale’s probability of getting every rose was 100%.
Tayshia and Brendan’s conversation on #TheBachelorette is the most genuine convo I’ve ever seen on this show. This is winner potential
— lauren ◡̈ (@laur_clarkk) November 11, 2020
Omg Brendan and Tayshia…swoon!! I love them together! ❤️ #bachelorette #TheBachelorette
— ??♀️ (@laritaishere) November 11, 2020
Tayshia’s date with Brendan just made me so giddy. He’s so adorable? #TheBachelorette
— Megan Davis (@Meg_Dav33) November 11, 2020
So did you think Clare was a good Bachelorette? Or does Tayshia beat her by a landslide? Tell me what you think on twitter @HappyLilNerd, and don’t forget to watch The Bachelorette on Tuesday’s 8/7 CT! It looks like Tayshia’s season will be one worth watching.