Itâs finally over. After weeks of debating with your parents and constantly listing pros and cons of colleges in your head, youâve finally made a decision. Itâs not easy to choose where youâll be spending the next four years of your life, so give yourself a pat on the back â you deserve it. While it may seem far away right now, the next few months are going to fly by. If youâre wondering what to do in the meantime, read on. Weâve talked with collegiettes and experts around the country to list your next steps after accepting a college.
1. Donât brood over âwhat ifâ colleges
After youâve carefully made a decision and sent in your acceptance letter, donât let your mind wander to that timeless question, âwhat if?â Youâve chosen the school that best fits your life goals. If you know youâve chosen wisely, stop yourself from worrying. It wonât help you any.
Dr. Bari Norman, certified educational planner and co-founder of Expert Admissions, reminds you to keep your focus. âIt’s important to know when to move on, and this is one of those times,â she says. âIt may not be easy, but you want to start focusing on where you’ll actually be going to college so you can make the most of it and give it a fair shot. You had whatever school you’re attending on your list for certain reasons â remember those reasons, and start focusing on the good.â
Oftentimes, we have to go against family or friends when choosing whatâs best for our lives. If your parents or friends arenât too supportive about where you decided to study, donât let that get to you. This is the start of your life and learning to choose for yourself is important!
2. Figure out your living arrangements
When you send in your acceptance letter to your college, youâll most likely receive an e-mail from the department that handles orientation. They will give you information about signing up for orientation, choosing your dorm and meal plan, and even picking your classes. Pay attention to the deadlines and write them down so youâre prepared for the months leading up to your first day of school. If youâre unclear about anything, donât be afraid to shoot an e-mail back and clear your doubts â itâs proactive and theyâll be happy to help.
Choose a dorm and meal plan that fits best with both your financial and academic needs. If youâre going to school close to home, you might be able to commute and save money. If youâre going to school far away, youâll probably need to invest in a dorm and meal plan.
Iesha, a sophomore at the University of Florida, gives you tips on finding a place to live. âStart doing research on all the specifics for living accommodations,â she says. âYou may want to live on campus your first year, which is both convenient for getting to classes and âforcesâ you to see other people frequently and make friends. However, donât be afraid of looking into off campus options your first year â I found out I could live off campus at a cheaper rate than a dorm and I personally like having my own bed and bathroom. I learned to be independent even more quickly when I got an apartment, but choose the option that is best suited for your needs.â
You might even be thinking about bringing your car to school. The best way to find out information on the specifics of such living arrangements at your school is to check online and connect with current students. Your school will most likely have a FAQs page for new students â check that out and talk to people who already live on campus if you can.
3. Check if you have required summer reading
Colleges sometimes have required summer reading for incoming freshman. In my case, they actually sent the book by mail and emphasized that weâd be assessed on the novel within our first semester. Not all colleges will do that, but definitely make sure you know whether you have a book to read â you donât want to completely miss it. It will most likely be mentioned in the welcome e-mail from your college, but if not, check on the website to be absolutely sure.
If youâre enrolling in an English course your first semester, teachers will often have books theyâd like you to read over the summer. Send an e-mail to the teacher and see if you have any reading. Even if you donât, your proactive attitude will stand out and theyâll most likely remember you by name when youâre finally in their class.
4. Apply for scholarships
College is a huge financial burden. Whether you, your parents, student loans, or a combination of the three will be covering your tuition, itâs definitely a difficult burden to carry. During your last summer before college, youâll most likely have a good deal of free time. Take a few hours every week to apply for scholarships. Itâs really easy â youâll probably just need to fill out some information and write a quick essay. Since youâve already written a ton during application season, you only need to tweak a few things here and there and send it off.
Not sure where to find scholarships? Itâs a lot easier than youâd think. First of all, you can simply look online. There are tons of scholarships you can find with just a simple Google search. If you want to look for local opportunities, ask guidance counselors at your high school and check with institutions around your hometown. The key is to look for scholarships with both a small applicant pool and small reward. Youâll have a much better chance of getting a $100 scholarship from a local society than a $3,000 scholarship from a big chain. Donât let the small amount of a scholarship dissuade you from applying â the numbers can add up.
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5. Connect with other incoming freshmen
A great way to calm your pre-college nerves is to connect with other new students. That way, you already have a few âfriendsâ even before you set foot on campus. Look for a âNew Studentâ or âClass of [Insert Graduation Year]â Facebook page for your college â most schools have one to help freshmen foster a sense of community. Join and be active on the page. You might just meet some great friends. And if you really connect with someone, you could even ask that person if he or sheâd like to room together. Itâs great to choose your roommates so you can have a better idea of who youâll be living with.
Iesha notes that finding roommates before you get on campus can enhance your college experience, and that you shouldnât be afraid to choose people that you wouldnât normally become friends with. She says, âI recommend finding roommates ahead of time, unless you want to get paired with someone randomly, which can also be exciting! I chose roommates I thought Iâd click with the best and even some outside of my normal circle and it turned out splendidly â weâre all super close now!â
Dr. Norman adds that orientation can be another great way to meet both freshmen and upperclassmen. âMany schools also have orientations for first-year students in the months and days before school starts. These events will be great ways to meet other incoming students and also upperclassmen who will volunteer as part of these programs,â she says. âUpperclassmen are great resources, and itâs always nice to know someone older on campus who you can reach out to, if needed.â
If you know people from your high school will be attending your college in the fall, definitely reach out to them. You may never have spoken to them before, but theyâll be glad to know theyâre not alone. Who knows, you might become good friends!
6. Shop and pack for your dorm
Make sure you have a plan when you go shopping for dorm supplies. Write down a quick list of the essentials youâll need for setting up your room. You donât want to arrive your first day and forget something important (and then have to fight the crowd of incoming freshmen at the nearest superstore). If youâre moving far away and have to travel by plane, keep in mind that youâll most likely need to buy the majority of your supplies at your college.
Your school will probably provide you with a packing list, but if not, feel free to check out our ultimate collegiette packing list. Itâs got everything you need â and more.
7. Relax
Finally, and most importantly, let yourself relax. Youâve made it â youâve braced yourself through hectic college application season and youâre finally at the pearly white gates of college. From here on out, youâll have more freedom in your life and the opportunities are endless. Let yourself cool off and enjoy your last few weeks of high school. Give yourself a break â college will be stressful enough.
Dr. Norman reminds you that itâs okay to do nothing. âThis might not be the advice youâre expecting to hear from a college advisor, but I think itâs a great time to do nothing, however you define that,â she says. âMost students have been working really hard leading up to college, and theyâll be working hard again once they get there, preparing for the next phase after college. This is the one summer where youâre sort of in between things, and I think students should take advantage of it, if they can.â
Maybe take up a new hobby this summer: playing an instrument, yoga, painting. This time is for you, and you deserve it. Good luck, future collegiette! You can achieve anything and everything if you put your mind to it. Be excited about your college experience and keep dreaming.