When it comes to transitions and new experiences, your late teens and early twenties have all the other decades beat. Think about itâmost college students see their living situation change every time a summer break or a new academic year comes around. For many collegiettes, the first and biggest of these transitions takes place in an on-campus residence hall, complete with a random roommate, an 8×10 dorm room and a resident advisor.
Eventually, though, itâll be time to leave all the fun and frustration of dorm life behind for a new life off campus. Youâll replace the cafeteriaâs Chicken Finger Wednesday with Grocery Shopping Thursday, and youâll swap out your RA for a landlord. The transition from life on campus to life in an apartment or house is a pretty big one in its own rightâluckily, Her Campus has you covered with the ten most important things to keep in mind when you decide to venture off campus.
1. Living with landlords – know your rights and document everything
While living on campus, you rarely deal directly with the people who own your space. This, of course, will change when you move off campus. From the moment you sign your lease to the day you turn in your key, make sure you know how to interact and communicate with the landlord whoâs leasing his or her property to you.
From the very beginning, make sure youâre documenting everything you possibly can. Any verbal agreements with your landlord need to be in writing as well, says Allison Lantero, a Boston College graduate who took her landlord to small claims court and won.
Allison and her roommates decided to take their landlord to court after their security deposit was only partially returned, with no detailed receipt and no bank statement for a $1,200 damages charge. They won the case, but Lantero says it wouldâve been easier if every stipulation of their lease had been in writingâsome agreements were made over the phone and couldnât be documented in court.
âIf itâs not in writing within the legal document of the lease, itâs not enforceable,â says Kendal McDevitt, former coordinator for the Office of Off-Campus Community Relations at Appalachian State University. For any agreements that are not written into the physical copy of the lease, McDevitt recommends writing them in, and having each roommate as well as the rental company initial the changes. âFirst, go through the apartment and document the condition of rooms and appliances. Some apartment complexes provide handouts for this. If not, take a blank sheet of paper in with you and write down damage of anything you see. Second, take pictures of the apartment in its original condition. Keep a copy of the pictures yourself and submit a copy to the rental company,â McDevitt says.
Still confused about your rights as a renter? âHave a lawyer look over the lease for you,â says Chelsea McLeod, a recent grad of Rhodes College.
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2. Start thinking like your mom
No, this doesnât mean you have to start worrying about yourself (and calling yourself multiple times every day). But your mom did handle the ins and outs of your childhood home for at least eighteen years, so it might not be a bad idea to tap into her superpowers.
First, put some thought into your surroundings. Remember how your mom hauled dozens of plastic tubs down from the attic so she could redecorate the house for each holiday season? It may seem tedious, but little touches go a long way toward making a house feel like a home. So if youâre allowed to paint the walls of your rental or apartment complex, paint them! If your living room furniture is mismatched, go online and learn how to make fun covers for couches and chairs. If youâre artistic, buy wooden initials – theyâre cheap at stores like Michaelâs and A.C. Moore – and paint them for your room. Just make sure you clear any big changes with the roomies.
Second, remember that itâs now your job to keep your home stocked and supplied. Collegiettes who were asked about items they forgot to pack mentioned paper towels, vacuum cleaners, floor mops, toilet paper, brooms, tool kits, toilet plungers, pasta strainers, and bathroom mats. Add these items to your list, and sit down with your roommates to brainstorm other basics you may be missing.Â
And donât forget to pack beyond the basics as well. âI noticed what separated other peopleâs apartments from mine from feeling like home is everyone else had a much more decorated place with candles, posters, and plants,â says Jessica Len, former Her Campus Campus Correspondent at UC Davis.
In addition to year-round decorations, other collegiettes  suggest getting into seasonal decorating. Cut and decorate a Christmas tree with your roommates or make a spring wreath for your door. Do whatever you can to make your new place one youâll want to remember.
3. Learn to grocery shop and cook some simple staples Â
One drastic difference between dorm life and apartment life revolves around one of the things college students love most: food. While living on campus, youâll typically have a meal plan that grants you access to cafeteria meals, no cooking or grocery shopping required. Off campus, unless you feel like trekking to campus every time you feel like a snack, itâs likely a little bit different. Before you move into your apartment, make sure youâve discussed the food situation with your parentsânamely, whoâs paying for whatâand make a trial grocery store run while theyâre still in town.
It also helps to learn a few simple meals before moving into your apartment, so that after a long day, or after your Julia Child masterpiece burns/collapses/explodes, you can whip something up quickly. If youâve never cooked before, ask a parent or a family friend to show you how to roast chicken or boil rice. If you know the basics but need new ideas, add a new cookbook to your Kindle. There are dozens of cookbooks tailored to college students in all sorts of living situations, or check out some of HCâs recipe ideas here, and here.Â
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4. Learn some simple cleaning fixes
You may have been cleaning your room for your whole life, and you might have even Swiffered your dorm room once or twice, but cleaning an entire apartment is a whole different story. Before you find yourself knee-deep in dust and dirty dishes, make sure you have a cleaning schedule for yourself. You can clean your bedroom on Saturdays and your bathroom on Tuesdaysâit doesnât matter, just make sure you know what needs to be done and when you need to do it.
Itâll also save time (and take some pressure off your wallet) to learn a few simple home-cleaning fixesâthis is another area where asking for Momâs know-how comes in handy. Instead of buying expensive cleaners, clean countertops, refrigerator shelves and other surfaces with white distilled vinegar. Dilute it with water, about one quarter cup of vinegar to every gallon of water. And instead of using up expensive paper towels to clean your windows, pick up a stack of free campus newspapers – the newsprint will remove smudges without leaving any streaks.
5. Stay plugged in to your campus
When you were living in the dorms, it probably wasnât hard to feel like a part of the action on your campus. After all, itâs literally where you slept and worked and ate. After moving away and embracing the off-campus lifestyle, though, you may feel a little detached from the undergraduate community at your college or university. For Appalachian State University grad Jordyn Coats, whose studio apartment isnât in her university town, keeping up with extracurricular activities has been the key to staying involved. âI play roller derby with some amazing women at least every other day,â she says, referencing the year-old competitive roller derby team she founded. Whatever your niche is, from intramural sports to knitting club, donât drop it because the meetings are no longer quite as close by. If youâre only on campus when itâs time for class, you wonât feel as connected to or invested in it.
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Even if all doesnât go as planned, make every effort to get to know yourself better during your first off-campus experience. If youâre working too much to pay your rent and not using half of your apartmentâs fancy features, find a less expensive place next time. If your roommates are always studying but youâd rather be loud, seek out friends and roommates who feel the same way. As a collegiette, itâs the perfect time to learn what works for you. Soak up all the knowledge you can from your off campus living experience, and make the next one even better.