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I Purchased My Very First Vibrator & I’m Never Turning Back

Let me start of by saying I’m a very sexual female on the inside, but when it comes to talking about my hook ups or sex in general, I get really nervous and embarrassed. Just about the last thing I ever saw myself doing was walking into a sex shop and buying a vibrator, but this past weekend something hit me. I was feeling extra adventurous and for some reason I turned to my two friends who I was eating with and suggested we go to the sex store. About an hour later I left with the perfect toy and let me tell you, I am never turning back. Here’s why:

The insane pleasure.

Don’t get me wrong, vibrators are meant to give insane amounts of pleasure, but this was different than I’ve ever experienced. I came out feeling like I was on top of the world. I couldn’t even explain it to you and do it justice.

I had a big variety to choose from.

They came in every size, every shape and color. Some were for internal pleasure. Some were for external pleasure. I was in shock when I walked in from the amount of options, but I left happy with a vibrator fit to exactly what I like. There’s something for everyone, and I would even go get another for a day I was feeling a little bolder or a little more simplistic. 

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The confidence boost.

I have a boyfriend, and believe me, he knows what he’s doing, but even he can’t give me what I felt. The huge bout of happiness after I was finished was life changing. I felt so good about myself, so sexy and so worthy. For someone who doesn’t have a lot of confidence, it made me feel so great.

It’s all mine.

This experience is something that no one will ever experience with me. It’s all mine to think about when I’m alone at night, or daydream about in a boring class. No one will ever know how it made me feel and that just feels so scandalous. 

I’m telling you guys, if you don’t already have a vibrator, you need to get one now. Whether you’re a single pringle or happily married, there’s something for you (and for your partner if you’re willing). It’s just about the greatest thing that’s ever happened to me, and it should happen to you. So go and please your lady parts!