Tinder: The Good, The Bad and The Ugly
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Tinder is a weird and wonderful place. People are looking for anything from a one night stand to a soul mate, plus everything in-between. You can feel empowered and swipe left and right like thereās no tomorrow, crossing fingers and toes that you match with someone. Tinder is quite addictive, Iām currently swiping (for research purposes obviously) and do so at least a couple of times a day. Tinder can be a lot of fun, especially when you are drunk. One of our HC girls was kind enough to share her experience of her serenading a Tinder match after a night out:
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Iāve never actually met up with someone that Iāve matched with on Tinder, but plenty of people do and some even end up in a relationship with someone they swiped right to. That sounds all lovely, doesnāt it? Falling in love because of an app. A modern day fairy-tale. Well remember when I said Tinder was weird? Iām about to show you why:
Some boys havenāt learnt that less is more. First impressions DO count and my first impression of Mr Jam&Jelly was definitely not a good one.
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Boys will be boys and they make a lot of reference to their manhood on Tinder. Luckily for us, you canāt send pictures on Tinder, so we donāt have to worry about receiving an unwanted Dick-Pic! Somehow, many boys I match with manage to slip in (no pun intended) the subject of their penis pretty quickly.
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I suppose I should expect this when one of my pictures is of me at Platform 9 Ā¾…
Honestly though, some boys are just really strange. We should all feel sorry for this HC gal and what her Tinder match thought was good chat:
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Remember when men were gentlemen and didnāt tell girls that they wanted to taste their farts?
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Meeting up with someone from Tinder can be a daunting thought. Youāve only ever talked to someone over an app, they might not be the person you expected them to be. One of our members said she had a date with someone from Tinder and it turns out they basically lied just to make it seem like they had something in common. Some members of Her Campus Aberdeen told me how either they had been, or had friends who had been, seriously Catfished. All that was missing from some of these dates was the MTV film crew and Nev and Max. Another one of our girls had to deal with a Trump supporter who was plain racist towards Muslims and was so rude that he upset this member on their date. Bizarrely, he thought they could meet up again the next week! This same girl also met up with someone who wanted her to be a one-time lesbian experience. Tinder has not been kind to this HC gal. Boys, just be yourself and donāt use pictures that arenāt actually you! Honesty is the best policy.
Although Iāve received PLENTY of disgusting, sexually orientated and just plain creepy messages from boys on Tinder, Iām still swiping. You never know, Mr Right may just be a right swipe away.
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All images member’s own