Recently, we’ve all learned about Charlie Sheen’s illness of being HIV positive through social media and many news outlets. Charlie Sheen has known about his condition and continuously had unprotected sex with over 200 partners without telling them about his condition. Having a disease that you know you have and not telling the person you are having sex with about it is a crime. Everyone should get tested regularly and not just go by the say-so of the person you are about to have intercourse with, your health should always be on your mind.
There are many people that have never been tested for sexually transmitted infections or diseases. Getting tested is not fun at all but you cannot deny yourself of being informed about your health.
Why should you get tested?
It’s always better to be safe than sorry. Vaginal sex is not the only way diseases can be transmitted, as you should already know the same goes for oral and anal sex or any type of contact with the disease itself. The signs vary if you have caught something or not. Sometimes you’ll notice a difference in your discharge, other times you’ll notice bumps, or even nothing at all.
“My partner(s) and I have always used protection. Is that good?”
It’s good that you are having safe sex by using a condom. But, condoms are not 100% effective from preventing you from getting something. Condoms can reduce the chances of getting an STD by being a barrier. It’s always good to have conversation about this with your partner.
Where and how do you get tested for STDs?
All you have to do is setup an appointment at your doctor’s office, free clinic or at your university’s health center. Many campus health centers offer free STD testing on a regular basis.
When and how often should you get tested for STDs?
It’s a good idea to get tested soon after you become sexually active, whether that means after you’ve lost your virginity or after your first time with a new partner. If you’re feeling uncertain, get tested as often as necessary within each year. Always be proactive instead of inactive when it comes to your health. Make sure you and your partner stay updated and open when it comes to your sexual history at all times.
What should you do based on the results?
Whether the results are positive or negative, you should be able to share this information with your partner—your health and your partner’s health are equally important.