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Unlike relationships where I overthink every possible intention and communication, I have no inhibitions when it comes to the ones I consider friends. It’s either all or nothing for me. And without lines, I am at my most vulnerable with them. But what I don’t see coming is how from making core memories with them, they themselves become one. Not all heartbreaks involve relationships, sometimes friends can break your heart too. These poems delve into the emotions I associate with friendship heartbreaks. 

In the Deep

you smile, you cry 

you always have a lot 

on your mind 

but my empathy 

has shrivelled and dried

I take the tiniest sips 

and my chest no longer caves in 

my lips thin every time 

you intertwine in even 

the farthest vision of mine 

didn’t know how to draw lines 

so you surpassed all of mine 

but as the clock keeps ticking by 

I just want to turn back time  

everyone says 

you’re so nice 

and I’m the one

planning my moves like 

some unhinged mastermind 

I promise I used to be kind 

gave you a chance 

kept an open mind 

but now I’m the one

who doesn’t feel fine 

Blame Game

I do nothing but the fault is 

always mine 

Funny how, you made me your fail safe 

then blamed me for all your crimes 

my hands get bloody 

while yours shine bright 

my soul is empty 

while you’re the one 

who gets to whine

But all you do is sigh 

and never hold me when I cry 

so please don’t look surprised 

when I say goodbye 

‘cause even the warmest hearts 

freeze in time

Inconsistency

we wander between

being warm and cold

then why am I the only one

left feeling alone?

we used to be happy 

so why am I 

the only one who 

fights to keep us afloat? 

if we were “family”

then why am I the only one 

left wondering why

we don’t talk anymore? 

I Try So Hard

i ridicule myself 

just to make you smile 

you want attention 

just not mine 

i tell you that

everything will be alright 

then lie awake 

every night 

i try so hard 

only to be a footnote in your life 

while my journals 

have your name underlined 

People Always Leave

you swept in,

past all my defences,

past the barbed wires and fences,

of mistrust and cynicism,

at a point in time,

when I didn’t need saving, 

you built me up,

piece by piece

i let you in and held your hand,

rested my head in your embrace,

showed you who I really am,

yet you chose to walk away

maybe the mystery you unravelled 

wasn’t compelling enough to make you stay,

so you threw away the pieces to far-flung corners,

who knew true friends could betray?

Head vs Heart

guilt keeps me up every night 

I try to find 

kind words that explain 

I’m not worth the fight 

you’re not usually 

the one who folds

but the mightiest hearts 

burn out when alone 

you say

we could turn out alright 

my heart is swayed 

but fear overweighs the might 

i could make you wait 

and maybe I’d get over 

this fear of mine 

but you deserve a lot more than 

this half-hearted lifeline 

Loving You Was A Curse, But Missing You Is Worse

you made your own bed 

when you pushed me away 

and left things unsaid  

When the clock strikes twelve 

I know I’m wasting my breath 

by holding it over someone 

who couldn’t care less 

Teach me how to forget 

and smile without regrets

to only see hate 

and leave love on read 

for you, I went all in 

to hell with safe bets

I loved you in secret 

without an ounce of regret 

but not everyone gives what they get 

and accepting the truth is better than 

living in the shell where you never left 

or didn’t know what I felt 

you’re not the one to blame 

cause it’s me who expects

thens chooses to fall 

without safety nets 

Stuck in this convoluted mess

I wish I’d lose my heart 

and not my head 

or hated you 

instead 

Loss

you made me lose faith 

in forever

when you left my heart

burning as embers 

tethered to you 

on my worst nights

you were the one who 

made me feel alive 

you healed me 

of all the past aches 

then left me alone 

in the heartbreak

you were all I wanted 

but made you believe 

that I took your love 

for granted 

playlists we made 

helped me find solace 

now are to blame 

for the tears I shed when it rains 

Letting Go

you saw right through me, 

did that make you take off 

and leave? 

or did you have too much of me 

and realised that

some things in life aren’t meant to be? 

cruel was a shade 

I thought you would 

never wear with me

people change 

and while it’s heartbreaking to see

I lose the illusion of reconciliation

and set myself free

Saher Khanna

Ashoka '23

Just your regular sky-obsessed, coffee-loving, Swiftie. She is pursuing an Economics major with a Media Studies and Entrepreneurship minor. When she's not writing, you can catch her reading, playing board games, clicking photos, listening to music or rewatching her comfort shows (One Tree Hill, Mentalist or Originals).