Trust me when I say going to college is scary all itself, but when you add on the fact that you’re going to a university out of state, it brings the worrying to a whole new level. Three years ago, I was an overly excited senior who was so ready to leave my hometown and experience new things in the next chapter of my life. All throughout high school, I always knew I wanted to leave California, but once graduation rolled around and college wasn’t just some fantasy but an actual thing I was about to do in a few months, the anxiety of having to leave my family quickly set in. I spent hours online looking up college necessities on YouTube or finding blogs where girls talked about the things they wished they had or knew about before going away. To save you some time and energy, here’s a list of all my must-haves and tips for going to college out of state.
First, you need to bring things from home that remind you of your friends and family. Personally, I bought specific candles that had scents that reminded me of different people in my family so that if I ever felt uneasy and needed comfort, I could light one feel more at home. I also printed an extreme amount of photos so I could have them all over my walls and on my desk. Photos are a great example of something small that can offer lots of support.
Another big tip is to get on Facebook, Twitter, Instagram (honestly whatever you can find) and follow or join your graduating class’ page. It’s a great way to make friends before you get to campus and to get a feel for the types of people that you will be seeing around. Just keep in mind that everyone is trying to make friends, plus there isn’t a single person out there that is going to be a freshman in college and is going to reject an offer for a friend. I loved going on these pages and making friends because it gave me that little bit of comfort knowing that once I got to college, I’d already have people there that I could lean on and hang out with.
The next big necessity for going to college out of state would be to start looking early into student discounts or plans offered by airline companies. I cannot explain how much of a lifesaver flyer points are when I have to book flights constantly to go home for holidays and family events. A few of my friends even convinced their parents to let them get credit cards specific to certain airlines so that the more you use their card, the more flyer points you earned. It has saved them so much money in the long run.
My last tip for my out of state people is to breathe and remember that college is a place to make memories and to branch out. Yes, there have been times where I regret going to college so far away from my friends and family, but I just think about all the amazing opportunities and great people ASU has brought into my life and how none of this would have been possible if I didn’t put myself out there. I know that the transition is going to be hard, but there’s absolutely nothing you can’t do if you put your everything into it.