The dramatic title to this article is in every single way reflective of how I felt heading into this weekend—both nervous and excited to meet my boyfriend’s parents. Ever since he asked me to join his family in their Easter festivities I had been an absolute wreck. I was undoubtedly thrilled about what this kind of a step means for our relationship, but the thought of being introduced to every member of his family (plus a whole host of family friends) made the butterflies in my stomach go wild.
I’ve always been good with parents, so why on earth should I be worried? I spent my entire high school career meeting and interacting with my friend’s parents, so I have plenty of experience. But college is notably different. You no longer have a reason to meet a friend’s family, especially with everyone being from different parts of the country. This…this was a big deal to me.
I could not have been more pleasantly surprised at how the weekend went. It was incredible to meet his family, and I felt honored to be included in the weekend’s events. Everyone was so warm and welcoming—it was really nice just to be around a family again after being on a college campus for three months straight.
I definitely learned some valuable lessons through this incredible Easter Weekend. Number one: above all, be yourself. I was so worried about making a good impression that I almost forgot to have fun. Don’t do that! The best way to make a good impression is to feel comfortable in your own skin, and to not be afraid to just be you! Everyone responds positively to someone who is confident, comfortable, and appreciative.
So, that brings me to my next point. Be appreciative! Especially when you are in someone else’s home, or if you are at an event paid for by another family, make sure to express your gratitude.
Finally—if he loves you, his family will love you, too. If he is introducing you to his family, that means he is confident that you will impress them. Admittedly, meeting your significant other’s family will always be stressful to some degree. But it is equally as exciting—you really do learn so much about a person from seeing how they interact with their family.
So, to all you Collegiettes out there who may be “taking the plunge” soon, don’t fret! Just be yourself, and his family will love you as much as he does!
Photo Sources:
http://inkontheside.com/2011/03/07/what-not-to-say-when-meeting-the-boyfriends-parents/
http://girlsguideto.com/articles/5-things-to-remember-when-your-boyfrien…