You probably think Tinder is a way to “get action”. Some will agree, either from first hand experiences or by watching the consequences of using Tinder by their roommates. Although no numbers have been confirmed for how many people use this mobile dating application, in such a technology-based culture we live in today, I think it’s safe to say a lot of people have downloaded this app at some point. The concept of online-dating is not a new thing to our generation. If we can use technology in our daily lives to make things easier to do, why wouldn’t we? So why wouldn’t we use our phones to meet new people?
Yes, some have said it is a little weird to meet people in person that you have only been conversing with via messaging. Others, like me, get a rush of the uncertainty. To meet someone that you’ve only talked to; you haven’t heard their voice, seen what they dress like, or even seen how they act.
So, how did I meet my guy? I set my preferences of location and age and let Tinder do the rest. I ended up swiping right (meaning “liking”) this guy I thought was interesting. I never had the courage to send the first message. But within a few days, he ended up sending me one. After a couple days of talking we went out, and then went out again and then another time. Talking everyday became a normal occurrence. We have been talking for about five months now and things continue to look up.
I will tell you this, they are not all princes. You will most certainly go through some frogs but it could be worth it in the end. You may find yourself a man, or you may find yourself telling the funniest stories to your friends.
It’s all been said to me “it’s sketchy”, “you’re putting yourself in a dangerous situation”, “you need online dating?” But I thought nothing of it. I thought this was a way to pass time, see what was out there. I had no expectations. I definitely didn’t think I would find a guy I was truly fond of either. So to put the stigma away, these mobile dating applications aren’t all bad. They aren’t just a way to hook-up with others in the area. Let’s face it, it’s all what you make of it.