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Whether you’re in one now or think you might be in the future, here are five tips that can help you keep your long-distance relationship strong!

Stay in Touch Daily

This is a tricky topic for many couples. Some are fine with just checking in once a week, but for me, daily calls and messages are a must; they help me feel close to my partner, even if we’re far apart. I love having a chance to talk about my day and hear about his. No matter what I’m doing (whether it’s a vacation, hanging out with my family, or just doing homework) I make sure to find time to talk.

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Get Creative With Plans

You can still have fun, even from a distance! My boyfriend and I like to get creative with virtual dates, from watching movies together, ordering the same dinner, playing online games, cooking together, or even painting mugs. On special occasions, like anniversaries, we make fun presentations on Canva, and we also write each other letters on special dates! These little things keep our bond strong and exciting.

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Affirmations Matter

Words of encouragement are a big deal in long-distance relationships. Little phrases like “We got this” or “Everything will be okay” make a huge difference when things feel tough. It’s those affirming words that keep me grounded and motivated in the relationship. They remind me that we’re a team and are in this together, no matter the distance.

Plan Visits

For me, knowing when we’ll see each other next is a huge part of staying positive. Having a set date for visits makes it so much easier to remain hopeful. Every day feels one step closer to being with my partner, which gives me something exciting to look forward to. Plus, planning those trips together can be half the fun!

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Focus on Yourself

While it’s important to strengthen your relationship, it’s equally important to focus on your own happiness—pursue hobbies, spend time with friends, and work on personal goals! If you set goals and make time to do other things, it’ll make for a healthier relationship and be more rewarding in the long run.

Long-distance relationships aren’t easy, but they’re definitely worth it when both people are equally committed to making it work. With good communication, some creativity, love, and encouragement, you can keep the relationship alive no matter how many miles stand between you. And remember, distance doesn’t last forever! Every day brings you closer to each other, until the day finally comes when the distance is only a memory.

You’ve got this!

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My name is Maya Le Baron and I'm from Chihuahua, Mexico. I am part of the events team at the Her Campus at Boston chapter. I am specifically part of the large events team which means we organize the big events throughout the semester such as formal and partnerships with other schools. Outside of Her Campus, I work at the International Literacy Program where I teach English to adult learners trying to earn their GED diploma. I am also part of other clubs such as Dean’s Host and member of the Child Health Equity Research Lab. I am currently a junior at Boston University majoring in Education and Human Development specializing in Educational Design with a minor in Business Administration. This is my first semester here as a transfer student and I have lived in the US for almost three years already for academic purposes. In my free time, I enjoy spending time with my family and friends, going to the movies, trying new restaurants and coffee places, and traveling. I have traveled to more than 5 countries including Switzerland, China, France, England, and Belgium. I can speak three languages; Spanish, English, and French and can have full-conversations in all of them.