Itâs amazing that thereâs a whole month that spreads awareness to something real many women around the world struggle with: breast cancer. Itâs great when people can educate themselves, learn more, and donate to good causes. Unfortunately, thereâs some things I see and hear during this month that are so agitating.
If you do a quick search on many different clothing retailers, such as Etsy or Amazon, you will come across a TON of sexual “merch” dealing with breast cancer. Letâs set the record straight – there is NOTHING funny, sexual, or cute about breast cancer. Slogans like âsave the boobiesâ, âsave a rackâ, “I love boobies”, âsave motor boatingâ, âbig or small save them allâ, and many more prove that while women are sexualized, so is a cancer that affects them too.Â
The Breast Cancer Action Organization said it best:
TikTok creator, Annie Bond, who lives with metastatic breast cancer made a video speaking about this issue. She explained that when someone has had breast cancer, a slogan like âsave the boobiesâ, while offensive, really doesnât make any sense.Â
âYou know that over 70% of the time you get your entire breasts removed when you have cancer,â Bond said. âbecause thatâs whatâs killing you – the tumors in your boobs.â
Since itâs 2023, you would think we would have already moved past this âsexualâ push for breast cancer. As someone who has seen multiple women in my life struggle with breast cancer, I canât even express the anger I feel when I continue to see slogans like this.Â
I was in elementary school when my grandma was diagnosed with breast cancer. It was so hard to watch someone struggle day and night with something, be severely ill from chemo, and recover from surgery. Then, at the same time, I saw people only worried about the “boobs” and simply turn a blind eye to the person.Â
When you have sat by someoneâs side, seen their spirit break down, and seen them lose “feminine” things like their hair, eyelashes, and eyebrows – it puts into perspective what really matters – the person. Women are humans – we are not a sexual being or just a pair of boobs. We should be concerned with saving the personâs life and not a body part.
At the end of the day, it is a 24/7 fight for women and everyone in their life. I am passionate about breast cancer and (like many people) I want more research done. There is a better way to go about how we talk about breast cancer. It is a serious issue – not a funny lighthearted one.
This October, think twice before you buy âbreast cancer awareness merchâ and show better support to the survivors you know.