We all know with growth comes the territory of facing new challenges and learning new lessons. Everyone has different experiences and there’s no saying what lessons are better than others. But all lessons are worth sharing.
Here are 19 lessons I’ve learned by age 19 that I wanted to share.
1. Don’t take life too seriously
I know that everyone says this but truly I can speak from personal experience, it is not worth the stress that comes with forgetting to have a little fun every once in a while.
2. It’s easier to stay on top of things than it is to procrastinate
Seems simple but we all know it’s not. Staying on top of things is just another way to ensure you’re being productive and not giving yourself too much unnecessary stress.
3. Don’t be ashamed of the things you like
I don’t care how old you are, if you like something, own it.
4. Keep going
Even with tears in your eyes. You really are capable of so much but it’s healthy to break down every once in a while.
5. Focus on learning
And I don’t just mean school. Learn anything and everything you can because at the end of the day without learning there is no growth.
6. Don’t forget to make time for yourself
Life is not easy. Taking time for yourself is key to maintaining a healthy mental state.
7. Understand you’re not always going to be right and that’s okay
I love more than anything to be right, but it has taken me a long time to accept you cannot always be and that’s okay.
8. Cherish each moment with the people in your life because it won’t last forever
Nothing lasts forever. You’ve heard it a million times but it’s true. Hold onto those moments and never let them go.
9. Life isn’t a race
There are literally no rules. Don’t let yourself get wrapped up in thinking you have to get things accomplished by a certain time because the reality is you don’t.
10. Stop comparing yourself to others
IT IS NOT WORTH IT. You are you and that is for a reason, don’t lose sight of that.
11. Recognize what you’re good at
It’s okay to be sure of yourself. Hone your talents and celebrate them because you deserve to.
12. Don’t dwell on your weaknesses
You have two choices here: ignore them or work to improve upon them but DON’T dwell on them.
13. Empathy is key
Be open and aid those around you whenever you get the chance.
14. You’re going to fight with your parents and that’s okay
No relationship is perfect. Just because you fight, doesn’t mean you love them any less.
15. Know your limits
There is no point in trying to be superhuman because you’re not. Only take on what you can handle.
16. Respect your worth
You are human, so you are valid, and you owe it to yourself to know your worth.
17. Don’t settle for anything
There is nothing in this world that should get between you and what you want. Please just go for because you deserve to have it.
18. Do more things that scare you
Fear is well terrifying but it’s also exhilarating. Pushing yourself makes you a better version of yourself. A life lived in fear is a life filled with regrets
19. Just love