There’s a lot that goes into a good makeout. It’s not an easy thing to accomplish, especially if you’re making out with different people, and not the same person over and over again. Deep down, some of you might be insecure about the way you kiss, and that’s totally fine. Every one’s different, our preferences vary, but there are definitely some things that most people will say are essential when it comes to kissing.
I mean, personally, I want to be remembered. I want to know that my kiss is capable of arousing my partner enough to take it a step further. If you’re anything like me, keep reading because I’ve found five ways you can easily upgrade your makeout skills.
1. Focus on your tempo
Tempo is super important. You need to make sure that you work with your partner’s rhythm, and not against it. It only takes a few seconds to figure out their pace, and once you do, you’ve got to match it. Now, more importantly, once you match it, it’s always fun to take control by switching it up. Start off slow and deep, then switch to fast and passionate. It’ll blow your partner’s mind.
2. Start lip biting
Lip biting is hot AF. But there’s definitely a particular way to bite your partner’s lip that’ll get them going. First, don’t go crazy. That means, don’t bite their entire lip. Think of it more as a nibble. Which leads me to my second point, be careful with the intensity of your bite. Basically, don’t bite too hard. Make it more sensual, like a tease that’ll get them hooked on your kiss.
3. Get tongue ready
This one really depends on you and your partner. Preferences for using tongue varies; some people hate it, while others love it. In order to play it safe and find out which direction your partner leans, introduce your tongue gently. Don’t shove it in there. If you see they’re enjoying it, and start using their tongue, then it’s your time to shine. Don’t use too much though, because you don’t want it to be sloppy.
4. Touch and tease
This is a definite must. Let’s get right to it. You can’t just kiss your partner and have no idea how to place your hands. Use them! Hold on to your partner’s neck, pull on their hair, maybe even grasp their thigh, depending on where you want this makeout sesh to lead. Don’t be too rough but don’t be too gentle either. Find a balance that intrigues your partner. You won’t regret it.
5. Be confident
Like I said, some people tend to be insecure about the way they kiss but don’t be. Even if you think you’re the worst kisser, play it off as though you’re the most confident. That means don’t be shy. Don’t second guess yourself. That itself will arouse your partner. On top of it, you’ve got these tips to help you out with your makeout skills. Follow them closely and your partner is guaranteed to want a taste of you again.