As a woman, I had already been aware of certain aspects of sexism that can take place on college campuses going into my college experience. Thatâs why I was so relieved to see all the work that students and faculty have put into combating those issues here on campus with great resources like the Women and Gender Advocacy Center in the LSC.
   Recently though, I started experiencing a lot of subtle sexism from my male peers in different classes, which really started to bother me. I found myself often getting spoken over and interrupted in class discussions. I watched as I and a few other girls in a classroom full of boys hesitated to raise our hands or speak up and waited. Once we did get the courage to raise a hand, as our male professor chose every male studentâs hand before our own.
   After a few weeks passed, it really got me thinking: are they even aware that this is happening, that theyâre doing this? Do they know what it feels like to be talked over or dismissed, for their arm to get tired waiting to contribute to a discussion?
   In fact, there have been studies which show that the male brain registers the female voice differently and actually finds it to be much more complex and therefore difficult to understand than other male voices. Some studies even show that the female brain prefers the male voice, too. (I know right? The odds really are stacked against us here!)
   I have to confess, I didnât just happen upon these studies while reading from academic journals in my free time or anythingâI actually remembered it from an episode of Greyâs Anatomy (which I highly recommend by the way, season 12 episode 9 is the one Iâm referring to, but you might as well watch all 14 seasons and counting while youâre at it).
   Still, the studies are there. All you have to do is Google âstudies of the female voiceâ and youâll be met with a variety of sources that all make similar reports. Thereâs a lot of scientific mumbo jumbo involved about vocal cords and different parts of the brain, but what it all boils down to is that women have a more difficult time than men in getting our voices heard no matter which way you slice it.
   So, what now? What do I, or rather what do we as women in college do now that we have this information?
   Step One: Be confident in your voice! Donât get discouraged by those interruptionsâ fight to get your perspectives heard because they are just as important as what the boys    have to say.
   Step Two: Lift each other up! Encourage your female peers to speak up when they have    something to sayâwhen you see her getting interrupted or ignored, donât be afraid to say, âIâd like to hear what she has to contribute.
   Step Three: Try not to take it personally! Not all, Iâd even venture to say most, of the boys on our campus are doing it intentionallyâdonât get me wrong, there absolutely are some who are, and, in those situations, Iâd say speaking up is even more important.
   Step Four: Have conversations with your male peers about it! Your friends, your    brothers, your father, your other male relatives evenâitâs never too late to educate.
   Step Five: Take these skills past college! Use them in the workplace, in your family, in your social circleâspeaking up will always be harder for us but it doesnât have to be impossible!