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This article is written by a student writer from the Her Campus at CU Boulder chapter.

This semester, I have found myself to be significantly busier than in previous semesters. Between my heavy schedule of online classes, two internships, writing for Her Campus, all on top of training for a marathon, it is safe to say that my free time is extremely limited. 

Growing up, I was only told to keep busy. If you’re not constantly working or doing something productive, you’re wasting your time. And for a long time, I believed this mentality. I am the type of person that likes to be doing something constantly. I like to keep busy. 

Yet, sometimes constantly keeping busy becomes overwhelming. I can’t always push myself to the limit and be productive 24/7. I have to take a step back. I have learned that if I am not attuned to who I am and what I want in my life, I will start to limit and hold myself back from accomplishing my goals. 

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There will be days, sometimes even weeks, when I am so busy that I do not stop working the entire day. I can sit at my desk for hours on end, often missing meals or a shower. I become so focused and determined to finish what I have to do, that I neglect myself entirely. I actively have to tell myself to take a break and take a step back. 

I am no expert yet, but I am slowly learning how to put myself on the top of my priority list. Taking care of myself is not a luxury, it’s a necessity.

Usually, the first thing to go when I am busy or feel stressed is working out. I love going to the gym and running, specifically. When I take that time away from myself, I definitely feel worse mentally. I work best when I have a schedule. I like to have a visual agenda of everything that I have to get done and be able to cross things off when I finish them.

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Because of this, I like to schedule a time to work out or go to the gym. For me, I find that this works the best. This method holds me accountable for actually completing my workout and not doing something else instead. 

I have also started setting aside time for myself every night. I try to stop doing all work by 8:30 p.m. so I am able to have a least a little bit of “me” time. I usually will catch up with friends, hang out with my roommates, scroll through Tik Tok, or watch TV during this time. I like to destress and decompress before bed, and I have learned that this really helps me with that. 

I used to do work until right before bed. I would go to bed stressed and wake up stressed when I did this. This was definitely not healthy. Changing this behavior has definitely changed my mental health for the better. 

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It’s also really hard for me to talk to anyone about how I am feeling. But, as much as I hate to admit it, talking to someone, usually, my parents, about how I’m feeling really does help me feel better and wind down from a crazy day of work. 

I have definitely not mastered the art of prioritizing myself. It is something that I am actively trying to work on. This will not happen overnight. But, each day I work harder towards putting myself first as I should!

 

Isabella Silber

CU Boulder '22

Isabella is a senior at the University of Colorado Boulder. She is a Strategic Communication major with an emphasis in Public Relations and a Journalism minor. When she is not flipping through fashion magazines, she can be found obsessing over a pair of sneakers, running up the Flatirons, and reading in a nearby coffee shop.
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