All too often, commuting to campus can be a hassle. Traffic is sometimes slow and parking is generally a game of luck (although the Dalplex is usually your best bet on Studley). When I started university, the thing that worried me the most about commuting, however, was how to meet people and maintain a social life.Â
When youâre not surrounded by roommates or within walking distance from fun events, it can sometimes feel isolating to be away from campus. But fear not â it is entirely possible to still feel connected to the university community and enjoy what Dalhousie, Kingâs and Halifax have to offer!
Tip #1: Get to know the people in your classes
This might sound like a âno-brainerâ to some people, or an awkward proposition to others, but if youâre struggling to meet people or make friends, the classroom is a great place to start. Donât be afraid to sit next to someone new and introduce yourself. This tends to be easier in smaller tutorials/discussion groups than large lectures because youâll have more of a chance to chat and get a feel for the people around you. Iâve met some good friends by approaching people who I found had things in common with me during first-day icebreakers. Even if you donât become best friends, youâll have a study buddy to help you out and chat with.
Tip #2: Make plans for in-between and after classes
If going back and forth between home and campus isnât simple for you, there are still lots of chances to hang out with friends while youâre in the city. If you have breaks between classes, head to the Killiam or Kingâs Library with a friend or two to study together, or venture to a nearby cafe for a coffee date. This will help you stay connected while maximizing your time out – and also reserves home as a place for relaxation.Â
Tip #3: Join clubs and societies
One of the best ways to stay connected on campus is to get involved! Not only is it a great way to practice and gain skills, and explore and grow passions, but youâll get to meet other like-minded students. Thereâs a DSU society for just about any interest, and if you canât find one, itâs always possible to start your own. If youâre into fitness, Dal also offers intramurals and a variety of classes at the Dalplex. Social media is making it quite easy to keep updated about different clubs, societies and events (many of which are online due to COVID-19, which may be beneficial for some), so be sure to check out pages like @dalstudentlife on Instagram that provide lots of info.
Tip #4: Use your local knowledge to your advantage
If youâre a local to Halifax, or the surrounding municipality, your insider perspective into the best hangout spots, restaurants, shops, parks and events in your area is valuable! The people you meet at school will surely appreciate your knowledge. Take a day to show them around your stomping grounds and do your commuter status proud. Some great spots in Dartmouth are the Alderney Landing Farmersâ Market, Shubie Park and Lawrencetown Beach.
Tip #5: Take time for yourself
Whether thereâs a snow storm, a lack of transportation or youâre just straight-up exhausted (commuting can take a lot out of you), itâs not always practical to get out to the city â and that is completely understandable. A good way to counter FOMO is to find things you genuinely enjoy doing by yourself (or with roommates/family if you live with them). Set up a nice study space in your house, have a spa night or make yourself a nice meal and watch a movie. As an introvert, spending time at home helps me recharge, so that when I am on campus, I can make the most of it!