The Unsent Project

Something has always fascinated me about love. I think this love experience can be different for everyone. Some people find who they want to spend the rest of their lives in their 20’s and some have found it in their 40’s and above. 

 Love can be joyful for some while others swear, they never want to be in another relationship due to being treated badly and feeling bad in this so-called ‘loved up relationship.’  

Yes, when you break up with someone and it’s over somehow your broken heart still finds a way to beat. Do you hang on to a half effort relationship? Because there is a difference between giving up and knowing finally when you have had enough and just let it go. Believe your SO actions and not their words. 

Rora Blue has set up a website called ‘The Unsent Project’ which is a collection of over 34,000 unsent messages to first loves or messages you would send to someone if you had the chance. She explores the relationship between love and colour.  

She also has other projects called ‘After the beep’ which is similar to the unsent project. After the beep is voicemails you would leave someone you loved or have loved in the past and what you would say to them. The goal for Rora Blue is to figure out what colour people see love in.  

Through the website, some real truths from relationships have been revealed through the site. The unsent messages are posted anonymously and even browsing the site will make you think of your past relationships.  

The unsent project also reveals truth’s some people have written to their ex-friends and parents. 

How to get involved in this unset project couldn’t have been made any easier. What you do is to click on the ‘submit’ button on the site. Then you proceed to state your first love’s name and type what you would say if you sent them a text message and also the most important thing is to include the colour that you would associate with them.  

You can also look at Rora Blue Instagram page to find out more on this and on her site called the unsent project. 

Rora’s project has also rekindled old love but also harsh truths have been revealed about ones love.  Some true feelings are confessed and no stone is left unturned. She started the project to connect with people and love.  

The site is really interesting and heartfelt. I found when I was browsing through it that you could only but relate to a few of the unsent submissions. To rekindle or to finally close the book is something the site can be seen doing. On Rora’s Instagram, she posts up similar unsent submission’s to see if they are related in any way. 

On a side note and positive vibes…..If you’re going through a breakup just remember broken crayon’s still colour and what’s meant to be will always always find a way back to you and in typical Love Island code ‘ I’m happier but I could be happier’. 

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