Hey Shannon,
I’m worried about one of my really good friends. She has started partying a lot and making some bad choices (drugs, guys, etc). How do I let her know I’m concerned without her getting mad and pushing me away?
   -Trying to be a good friend
Dear Good Friend,
You have two options in this situation; you can talk to her about your concern or you can let it go. Trying to take a subtle approach will not work; it’s go big or go home. Before deciding what to do, ask yourself this question: if you were acting in a similar way would you want her to talk to you? The answer depends on how strong your friendship is and how concerning her actions are. It’s college; everyone makes dumb decisions and poor choices. Personally, I would talk to her about it if it gets worse or to the point where it is greatly effected her life in a negative way. There will always be the chance that she will get mad at you, but a true friend will understand that you have her best interest in mind. Good luck!
   Sincerely, Shannon