Orange peel theory, pickle theory, ketchup theory, what the heck does that all even mean? TikTok has run rampant with “theory” after theory, which are all the same premise. Orange peel theory is when your partner peels an orange for you. Pickle theory is when your partner leaves you a pickle. Ketchup theory is when your partner cleans up ketchup on the counter for you. But why?
Pestering your partner into doing trivial little tests isn’t really a good way to gage your relationship. In fact, it does the opposite effect. In bothering your partner to do an online test for TikTok and recording them, although you may get views, it probably can’t be good for the relationship. Especially if you blow up if they “fail” the test.
And when you record your partner failing the test, people will flood your comments saying to dump them and that men are trash.
Going more in detail, the latest addition to the ongoing trend of “boyfriend tests” on social media is the orange peel theory. And while a peeled orange as to not get pulp under your acrylics seems nice, it’s not worth ending the relationship. Some of these tests, like asking your partner if they would date others after a breakup, are funny in nature to get a quick laugh. It’s important to take a step back and realize- it’s not that deep.
Other tests, such as the ketchup challenge, involve squeezing ketchup randomly on a surface and asking your partner to clean it up. The intention is not to be bratty but to highlight men’s “weaponized incompetence” in simple tasks they may not (definitely do) have experience with. The sentiment is there, but the execution isn’t.
The underlying message suggests an exploration and exploitation of gender dynamics and societal expectations, such as women doing invisible labor by cleaning the house while men can sit back and relax. Which although may have truth, pouring ketchup on the counter and demanding your partner to clean it is definitely not proving the point you think it is.
Can we take a step back and see how insane this behavior is though? These “tests” prove nothing and are only there to garner more views. Also the comments will tell you to dump him regardless!
While I can understand the curiosity and wanting to know how your partner would react, it’s entirely backwards and I’d even say harmful not only to your partner, but to the relationship. If you’re constantly doing these TikTok “tests” it’s only a matter of time before it becomes strenuous.
If there is an issue in your relationship, the best way to navigate that issue is communicate your needs effectively. Not jumping on TikTok.
Rather than relying on relationship tests for entertainment or attempting to catch a partner off guard, fostering trust and engaging in honest conversations is a more effective approach. Open communication and discussing efforts or feelings openly can contribute to a healthier and more meaningful relationship. Building trust through mutual respect and dialogue is more valuable than resorting to manipulative tests for views or entertainment!