No one is “too busy” to get to know you
Timing is everything, we all know that. However, if someone keeps telling you they’re too busy to just get to know you…. listen to them because that is the biggest red flag of them all. I’m sorry, but no one is too busy to respond to a text, set up a date, or even for just a phone call. The universe is trying to warn you that they’re just not that into you before you get invested.
Don’t disconnect just because you connect
It’s so easy to get wrapped up in the idea of a brand new shiny relationship, but don’t forget to experience and enjoy college. Nothing can suck more than realizing that you’ve only gained book smarts in college because you stayed in with your boo every night.
People are not projects
Do NOT get in a relationship with someone if you know there’s a list of things you want to change about them. You already have ten thousand things on your plate, and trying to change a human being should not be on your to-do list. People change when they want to change, and people (especially in college) find it easier to resist change.
Don’t share your relationship to the outside world
Dating is already challenging, but dating in college gets messy. People already like to talk, so don’t give them anything to talk about. In my opinion, a relationship is only between two people so it should stay that way. You’ll be surprised at how many bitter people you surround yourself with, so do yourself a favor and keep your relationship private.
Drunk texting is a no NO
Drunk texting has the power to shake even the most stable foundations. There have been too many times where I’ve woken up to drunk texts and…….. let us just say I’ve gotten really good at walking past people like we’ve never even met.
A failed relationship can be a good thing
College is about learning in every aspect. Learning what works for you and what doesn’t work for you is the key to finding the one. So when it just isn’t working, it’s okay to say goodbye because something else is waiting.
Don’t date to find the one
Dating in college isn’t necessary, but some people can’t help it. Dating in college is supposed to be something new, fun, and almost experimental. Just remember that you’re young and that these are your glory years. You have plenty of time to stress about love when you’re in your thirties!