Being a Transfer Student

             While applying to college my senior year of high school, I was stuck between 

two very different schools. I was being pulled in opposite directions by each of the 

schools’ attractions—one for its sense of community on campus and the other for 

the thriving city in which it was located. I thought that one would be the classic 

liberal arts school experience including dinner at professors’ houses and late-night 

hangouts, and the other a more typical big school experience complete with Greek 

life and school spirit. I had to decide: Which of these aspects would I appreciate 

more in my college experience? 

              I opted for the excitement of the urban university. Why would I pass up what 

most people would consider the stereotypically ideal college experience? Yet, when 

I actually got there, something felt off. Of course I was having a blast going out very 

frequently, being a member of a sorority, and exploring a unique city, but I still felt 

that something was missing. I decided to apply to transfer for the next year—not 

thinking I would actually go through with it. 

             When I got into Hamilton, I still felt conflicted because I couldn’t imagine 

leaving the great group of friends I had made during my first year. I ultimately 

decided, however, that the small liberal arts education might be a better fit for me 

and that my wonderful friendships would survive the separation. 

            Hamilton has definitely been a culture shock. I miss being able to go off into a 

city with countless restaurants, bars, and live music, and of course it’s hard to come 

back as a sophomore and not know anyone—I have definitely been mistaken for a 

freshmen too many times. But coming in with other transfers who are going through 

a similar experience creates an incredible bond and has made the transition a lot 

easier. I also have been pleased to find that many returning students are open to 

and excited about making new friends. Yes, I’ve had a couple negative experiences 

in which I put myself out there and did not receive the warmest reception, but I’ve 

learned an important lesson from this—you can’t let the rare unfriendly people 

taint your view of the entire student body. By going out and joining clubs I wouldn’t 

normally join, I’ve met some really interesting and caring people. 

           Every college has its strengths and faults, which vary for each individual. The 

key is to find the place, not that is most obviously desirable, but that is most attuned 

to your particular desires. Even if your perception of a school does not align with 

the majority of other students’ perceptions, there is absolutely nothing wrong with 

making a change! Just as it takes a while for freshman to find their place, with time 

and perseverance, transfers should be able to find theirs.