It’s finally Fall, a.k.a cuffing season ladies and gents. This season can excite some and dampen the mood of others. Nonetheless, it’s here and it’s almost inescapable with the presence of social media. You scroll down the Timeline looking for jokes and laughs all to see proposals, date nights and relationship goals. We established it’s here but let’s talk about why Fall is considered cuffing season. For one, the weather is getting cold…cold weather means cuddles and snuggles with your favorite person!
But a more meaningful reason why Fall is considered cuffing season is that it’s the season of comfortability. Sometimes we feel more comfortable in the presence of a partner. We feel safe and protected. There is nothing wrong with letting yourself feel secure in a relationship, in fact, it’s healthy. However, don’t let your partner be your only sense of security. Be able to find comfort in your own presence.
Be open to new and fun relationships and if you don’t have a partner this cuffing season, don’t confuse being alone with loneliness. Use this season to work on yourself and build yourself up.
In addition to comfort and security, Fall also represents balance. It is the balance of Summer and Winter so think about balancing your cuffing season with the rest of your life. Evaluate if a relationship fits for you right now. If it doesn’t, don’t force it. Become comfortable in yourself and stay balanced this cuffing season.