Every sorority girl has this moment before formal recruitment: You’re standing in front of your closet, doors flung open, every article of clothing in front of you, (with several options possibly strewn around your feet) faced with one hair-pulling, all important decision:
What do you even wear to rounds???
As a fellow sorority girl, safely on the other side of the threshold of “formal recruitment,” I get asked this question all the time, and my answer is always this: Instead of thinking of rounds as a formality, think of rounds as a first date, and dress for that.
Really, when you think about it, rounds are just like first dates. They are all about first impressions, putting your best foot forward, and valuable time having meaningful conversations that will allow the other person to get to know you. You want to dress so that you are approachable, inviting, and confidant. Of course, all girls are different. Some girls like to dress super trendy and chic for a date, and others like to wear something that makes them feel comfortable. Either way, the goal is that you should wear something that makes the natural you shine through!
Below are four different looks (and lots more tips) to use as guidelines to get those fashionista juices flowing and get you out the door looking great for recruitment!
Look #1: Trendy for the Girly Girl
Tip #1: Don’t show too much skin. If you wear a cropped top, pair it with a high-waisted skirt and tights. Take a page from TaySwift’s book and leave a little mystery when it comes to your body. Coming off too racy could send the wrong message to the girls that are trying to get to know you, and could serve as a distraction that takes away from your awesome personality! Plus, if it’s the middle of February and freezing like it is right now, it just makes sense to dress appropriately.
Tip #2: If you gravitate towards heels, make sure you wear something you can “marry.” You’ll be on your feet for a VERY long period of time. You don’t want to be talking to a girl and miss what she says because you’re thinking, “OMGmyfeethurtsomuchwhydidIwearheelstothisthingwhywhyWHY?!?!” So, skip the stilettos and wear a wedge or a shoe with a thicker heel that will give you plenty of support.
Look #2: Trendy for the Edgy Gal
Tip #3: Wear something that makes a statement. Whether it’s a cute statement necklace or a slammin’ pair of printed jeans like the ones above, make sure you wear something that exhibits a little of your personality before you even talk to anyone. (I mean, c’mon. Have you ever met a sorority girl that didn’t appreciate a little chevron!)
Tip #4: Don’t over-accessorize. Remember: the goal is to show YOU off. You should wear the clothes, don’t let the clothes wear you. Sometime less truly is more. If you’re not sure if you’ve overdone the accessories, then you can always follow the sacred commandments of fashion deity, Coco Chanel. “Before you leave the house, look in the mirror and remove one accessory.”
**Note the wedge booties in the picture. Trust me, you’ll thank me later for wearing shoes that support your whole foot if you insist on exhibiting your strong shoe game.
Look #3: Simple for the Laid Back Girl
Tip #5: Dressing down is totally fine. If you’re the girl that likes to wear leggings and a messy bun, I totally feel you on that. But don’t reach for the those until after rounds are over. Instead, go for your favorite, clean pair of trusty blue jeans. You won’t feel restricted and over-dressed, and you’ll look confident and in your element. Also, skip the t-shirt and pick a nice blouse.
Tip #6: Wear something you know you look good in. If you’re feeling yourself, others probably will too.
Look #4: Simple Feminine for the Classic Girl
Tip #7: If you’re the kind of girl who is constantly glancing at her phone for the time or for personal comfort, (let’s face it, we all use our phones to deflect potentially awkward situations) minimize the amount of time you do so by putting it away. Try wearing a cute watch if you’re a stickler on knowing the time. You don’t want to appear disinterested or rude. Rounds are all about you! Enjoy your time in the spotlight and make sure you’re present.
Tip #8: Make sure you are clean and presentable. Keep in mind that we’re equating rounds to a first date. Put on a fresh face of makeup beforehand and possibly a spritz of your favorite perfume. These extra measures only make you more approachable and likable.
Most importantly, don’t overthink it. If you’re comfortable in your own skin, your best self will come across. Keep in mind that you will end up where you’re supposed to be. If you be yourself, and dress to reflect your personality, you’ll be well on your way to sisterhood!