In college, there is a huge emphasis on finding your forever friends within those four years. Many college students, including myself, have found it difficult to make these life-long connections due to circumstances with virtual learning and Covid restrictions. If you find yourself struggling to make those college friendships that everyone raves about, I am here to assure you not to worry. I have realized that genuine friendships come in due time and they are nothing that you should force.Â
While making friends, it is important to remember that some people come into your life for a reason, a season, or a lifetime. Unfortunately, some people that are your friends now might not be your friends a couple of years from now and that’s okay. Be prepared to let people go. Once people have served their purpose in your life and their values and behavior stop aligning with yours, it is best that you go your separate ways. I know it may be difficult to let go of someone you once considered to be a close friend, but it is in your best interest if you want to make true friendships. This will not only help you focus on yourself and strengthen your values, but it will also make space for others who are meant to have a special relationship with you.Â
Be patient and continue to be yourself. The right people for you will find you and will be attracted to your energy.Â
By joining clubs and organizations at school that fit your interests, you will be able to meet people who share similar beliefs and passions as you. This can be the start of making genuine and fulfilling relationships that can last a lifetime. I believe that the best friendships come when you least expect them. Therefore, don’t rush or force anything and your life-long friendships will be able to develop naturally.