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A girl’s guide to satisfaction (in bed)

This article is written by a student writer from the Her Campus at Illinois State chapter.

Yeah, you read it right!… We have compiled a list of moves and ideas that we found while browsing the internet. Bored with the same old? Try these steamy tips to spice up your love life behind closed doors!

 

Change the context. Tell him what you want and need.
 
Jump in the shower with him when he least expects it.

 
Start with a little peep show.
 
Climb on top. Show him what you can do.
 
Let him climb on top. See what he can do.
 
Lick.
 
Buy some new lingerie. Try a new color.
 
Touch your own body.
 
Change your “tongue” routine.
 
Let him know he’s a stud and how you want him. Boost that ego.
 
Keep your panties on.

 
Encourage fantasies.
 
Make it a quickie. Make him want more.
 
Break out that blindfold.
 
Take control. Hey, it’s not always a guy’s duty.
 
Start with a massage.
 
Try new positions.
 
Talk dirty. Maybe even whisper something into his ear.
 
Stock up on toys.
 
Try a new type of condom.

 
Play a little rough.
 
Long distance? Play with a webcam.
 
Play some music. Get the mood set.
 
Sleep naked.
 
Compliment him.
 
Have fun, enjoy each other.
 
 
 
Tips found from Cosmopolitian, Woman’s Day, Marie Claire, and Glamour magazine.

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Megan Maginity

Illinois State

Megan is a sophomore Journalism major at Illinois State University, with a minor in Creative Writing. She balances her time between class, her sorority- Gamma Phi Beta, and writing for the college newspaper- The Daily Vidette. When she’s not busy, Meg likes to shop for the best sales, rollerblade, hang out with friends or watch reruns of Sex and The City. Becoming a campus correspondent/editor-in-chief was a great accomplishment for her because she is an aspiring writer, hoping to take on the world of mass media after graduation in 2013.