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WARNING to my queens… these are not easy to read and will trigger reactions. These were written for the purpose of voicing rape without shaming anyone. These are not meant to be offensive to any survivor but meant to bring attention to the outside observers who just do not understand what rape is or what it can do to a person’s mental and physical health. I broke it into stages, not assuming that it is this easy to “overcome” rape in lack of terms, but wanted to create a brief insight into the mental and physical challenges faced, the same format as the stages of grief described in physiology classes. This also does not assume that rape only happens to women. Please use this as a learning experience and a respectful protest against rape. Thank you Queens.  

 

Terror 

A glass filled to the rim with my blood, 

It looks as if it is just the red wine you brought. 

My spine molded 

Into the wall with a thud. 

Clothes became soggy paper mache. 

My own skin melts off these broken bones.

You tighten your grip when the cracks echo.  

Shards stick out of my thighs 

That you have ripped open. 

Every thrust…I swallow my own teeth. 

Your sweat drips to the rhythm of my tears. 

Minute after minute my organs are pulp. 

I shut my eyes knowing, 

I cannot do much more.

Please…please…please…stop.

Your semen is my poison. 

Disintegrating the walls within me. 

I gasp for air… 

But choke on your skin cells. 

Clenching my jaw 

As veins pop through my neck

Turning blue and pulsing. 

Streams roll down to my calves. 

In wounded cold cuts

In a bed I used to dream in. 

Now…

It’s my own crime scene.

 

(Pause)

 

Wounded 

Do I dare even look in the mirror. 

Is it still me? 

Terrified to say my own name out loud.

Through these lips…these lips. 

I cannot touch this hair that’s been pulled. 

These arms with bruises. 

My thighs the shade of auburn. 

I scream towards the flashbacks. 

The detailed pictures of his face. 

The noises of our skin rubbing against each other. 

I want to bleach every part he touched. 

To bathe myself in fire. 

Am I still a woman? Or a victim? 

A little hug gives me ptsd. 

Cracking a smile makes me nauseous. 

My clothes feel like thorns and needles.

I haven’t slept in my own bed for weeks. 

Who can I turn to? 

Who will listen…or believe? 

What happened…? 

I fall to the floor 

With a knife in my hand.

“Forgive me.” 

 

(Pause) 

 

Grief 

I mourn this women. 

A women or spirit, laughter, pride. 

Someone I once knew. 

Once was in love with. 

Confidently adored. 

I cry for her every day. 

But my tears are cold. 

No salt to taste.

Lips pale and cheeks sunk in. 

I drown in poison. 

As the woman stares down at me. 

I reach for her hand. 

But our fingers can never lock. 

She cries for me

And turns her back

Walking into the darkness. 

It’s all black now. 

Emptiness. 

I hunt everyday

For the women I was. 

She’s no longer a reflection. 

 

“I’m sorry.” 

 

(Pause)

 

Rage 

I want you

To look me in the eyes. 

Stare into the court room. 

As I use the same strength,

You used to thrust in me.

I’ll squeeze your neck 

Until the blood vessels 

In your eyes break and bleed. 

I want you to suffer…

To foam from your mouth

As I rip out every tooth. 

I laugh as you choke.  

To cut off your pride 

And have your thighs 

Auburn like you left mine. 

I want your face 

Shown to everyone

With labels of your shame. 

You’re weak. 

You had no RIGHT!

You’re not a human. 

And I will show you my revenge. 

 

(Pause)

 

Relief 

I speak of you. 

With no vain to your name. 

As a lesson 

Of how strong I can be. 

I cry with tears of comfort, 

For the ones 

Who fall in my arms for help. 

I listen to the same stories 

With an empathetic heart. 

I grab hold 

Of these hands. 

Who are just like me. 

I am their comforting blanket. 

I am the strong voice

To push them through the poison. 

The one to release them

From the fear that’s deadly. 

I am here for all. 

As not a victim. 

But a warrior. 

A voice of a survivor. 

Protesting to defend all

Who are like me. 

I’ll be there. 

Through every stage. 

I’ll hold you 

The way you pulled me out. 

 

(Pause)

 

 

    My Queens, sharing these poems as stages for a survivor brings forth rape culture. A voice into the mind of what can happen during and after a rape. I am in no right to say that these are true but through research of personal stories told to me I have put together scenarios to give an insight or an example of what can happen mentally and physically to a survivor. Also describing the words that some cannot speak. And that is okay. I wrote these to just spark a reaction, to have your heart race pause and to think about how these make you feel. Do they speak to you? Read through the stages. These are my words. I can sit here and lecture you all about rape like the pathetic scripted videos shown to us through schools but I’d rather you all read a brief, unedited, un-silenced, grim, and hopeful version of a survivors journal. These are NOT true stories but are truthful events if that makes sense. Please respect views on this topic as it is sensitive to many and I very much understand that. These poems were written for a beneficial purpose the same as the “T-Shirt Project.” Just like that organization the goal is to expose people towrope culture. I wish for this to not offend or hurt anyone but to spark thoughts. 

    I care for ALL and as always Stay Royal My Queens.  

 

Chrissa Apostolopoulos

Illinois State '20

Chrissa Apostolopoulos is a Senior at Illinois State University "As a first-generation Greek Feminist, I write my articles as a respectful listener and advocated speaker for all persons. I open the platform for those silenced and as I continue my journey of opening up new perspectives, I advise my readers to be respectful audience members as well as knowledgeable persons." She/ Her Pronouns Follow Chrissa on Instagram: @chrissa_apostol
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