Your growth is going to make you uncomfortable. Your growth is also going to make certain people around you uncomfortable. People can only meet you as deeply as they have met themselves.Â
When you decide that it is time to heal yourself, learn new things, shift into a better mindset and evolve into a happier version of yourself, the people around you who are not ready to change will be upset.Â
It will be uncomfortable when you feel like you are letting people down by not performing like the old you would. It will cause the ones in your life to start subjecting you to their own insecurities. If these people are not ready to change with you, they will see your success and try to bring you down so that they can still feel comfortable with themselves. A lot of the time, they will not realize that they are doing it– that is still not fair to you.Â
It is okay to outgrow people. Just like you outgrew your favorite childhood toy or your imaginary best friend, you will outgrow many people and things in your life. Everyone wants and requires different things in this world as they grow — it is human nature.Â
Just because you have been friends with someone for many years does not mean that they still make your life prosperous in the present. You do not have to cut everyone out of your life, but it is important to take the time to reevaluate each relationship and set personal boundaries accordingly. This will allow you to experience proper growth in each season of your life.Â
You may need to distance yourself from certain people to protect yourself. The end goal is raising your own vibrational energy, and it is important that you do whatever it takes to reach your own personal goals.
The process of growth is supposed to be uncomfortable. In times of powerful transition, the universe will make your life feel messy. This is because you are learning to lean into your fears of the unknown. You will be scared of losing everything that makes you the person that you are in the moment. The feeling is terrifying, but it is significant when trying to reach your highest potential. It is the feeling of stepping into your own personal power and accepting new challenges that you never thought you could face.
Every day you should try to show up for yourself and be the best possible version of you. You are the only person that will be fighting for your success until the day you die. You owe it to yourself to spend each day proving that you are deserving of love and worthy of being taken care of. For the most part, you are the only person that is fully capable of giving yourself what you deserve. It is important to do what is best for you. Let yourself grow.