This article is written by a student writer from the Her Campus at KCL chapter.
I have made a list of questions for you to ask friends, partners, family or strangers to start a conversation. I love this list as it can really get you to learn more about the person and quite possibly, youself.
- Do you agree with “if he wanted to, he would”?
- If you communicate with someone exactly what you need and they don’t do it, are they actively hurting you?
- Is there such a thing as true love/ a soulmate?
- What does your dream life look like?
- What’s one thing you’d be doing right now if there was no fear of being judged?
- When do you feel closest to me?
- What’s one thing you don’t think I understand about you?
- What qualities do you look for in a partner/ friend?
- Do you believe in love at first sight?
- Would you rather have to marry your first sexual partner OR do your first job for forever?
- When you were a child what seemed to be the best thing about being grown up?
- If you could have a house, mansion and flat anywhere in the UK- where would they be?
- If there was an Olympics for everyday tasks, what would you win gold in?
- If you opened a business, what would it be?
- Would you rather want to know everyone who used to have a crush on you or a list of people who have a crush on you now?
- Have you succumbed to anything and regretted it?
- Is there anything you’re lacking in life right now?
- What passion do you wish you nurtured more?
- Put in order of easiest to give up to hardest: caffeine, exercise, alcohol, masturbating, sex, music, Instagram, alcohol, weed, added sugar, red meat, 8 hours of sleep, Netflix and video games.
- Would you rather relive your worst heartbreak or erase that person from your life?
- Would you rather a deep love that ends in heartbreak or a safe love that ends well?