Nobody Is perfect, but here’s a few tips that could maybe change your relationship, or make you realize you may not be in the right one, with the right person.
1. Listen
It may seem obvious, but when you really allow yourself to listen, it allows to you ask questions which lead to better conversations and a better communication between you two.
2. Find a support team
find other people to let off some steams your partner doesn’t have to hear all the negatives from you constantly.
3. Put away the phones
When you’re out together, or just sitting on the couch put away the technology and relax with each others company, even if you aren’t talking just enjoy the relaxing time without any distraction.
4. Create A Check List
Jot down new and fun things you want to accomplish together.
5. Find 10 things you really love about them and tell them
Everyone wants to feel appreciated and a confidence booster
6. Stop Nagging
seriously, it’s annoying, and it eventually gets old. It’s only okay if you both are nagging about something together but if you’re constantly nagging about what your partner does wrong, there ail become separation between you two because the other person will feels worthless
7. Get over the need to be right on EVERYTHING
Learning how to say the words ” I was wrong” goes a long way.
8. Compliment, and Often
Like his outfit? Tell him! Like the way she looks in that dress or her smile? Tell her!
10. Pay attention to the tiny things that bother your partner, and if it’s painless for you, change them
When your partner really hates it when you don’t do the dishes or leave lights on all the time, try making a point to change it so they don’t have to keep mentioning it, they don’t want to feel like you’re not listening
11. NEVER FORGET TO ASK HOW THEIR DAY WAS/IS
If it’s shitty, ask them why and make sure you make it better when they get home.
12. Small gifts go a long way
You bought some chocolate at the store? perfect. It was 99 cents? Even better.
13. Plan a date to visit where you first met
Because it’s adorable okay?
14. Go on walks together
Hold hands and just go explore and do some small talk with each other.
15. Go on a road trip
Even if it’s not far, it’s nice to have a change of scenery.
16. Let it go
Embrace your inner Elsa. Don’t hold onto things your partner did six months ago or last week. Stop bringing it up each time you’re mad at them.
17. Don’t interrupt
If you’re significant other is talking, don’t just start talking over them, sitting there and listening to them until they’re done is important.
18. Say thanks
Even if it’s for being themselves, saying thank you goes a long way.
19. Stay out of their family drama
it’s nooooot worth it.
20. Don’t try to control
A relationship isn’t a battle, it’s two people who are choosing to be together, so don’t treat your partner like they’re beneath you or you’re trying to tame them. You aren’t their mother.