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This article is written by a student writer from the Her Campus at Le Moyne chapter.

Annonymous: 

“To the Ladies of Her Campus, I need a female perspective on an issue I’m having. I recently saw my girlfriend on snapchat getting humped by another guy on the dance floor. We agreed that when we party, dancing with others is okay but I felt like this was kind of over the top. Do I have a right to be mad?” 

 

HC:

Hmm. It sounds like you guys need to be more clear with your boundaries. Define what “dancing” is– how close can the person be? “Getting humped” definitley sounds like a boundary was crossed, so you definitley have a right to be annoyed. She may have not realized she was crossing a line, and you guys should work on your communication. Don’t end the relationship over it, but if it happens again, I’d say it’s a red flag. 

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