I knew going into my first semester at college that being a commuter student was going to be hard. The thought of FOMO made me very nervous about starting college. The semester is basically over now and honestly, it went a lot better than I had anticipated. Partly because I figured out that Iâm in fact an introvert and because of an Emma Chamberlain video. Â
I know it might be odd that Emma Chamberlain, a YouTuber with over 10 million subscribers helped me enjoy my commuter life, but seriously! Her recent videos have created a âsimplicity movementâ as Iâd like to call it, which has helped me and other people appreciate life more from the looks of it on Tik Tok.Â
On August 11, 2021 Emma uploaded a video titled âalterationsâ. This video was the start of her content shift. Her videos recently have been a lot more raw, reflective, and calm.Â
 In âalterationsâ Emma takes the viewer through her daily routine; making her morning iced coffee, meditating, making an omelet for breakfast, errands, car talks, and inserts clips of her talking to the camera like if it were a friend. Commenters have voiced how they feel comforted by Emmaâs videos because she does not try to hide the normal parts of life. Â
One user writes, âEmma seems like she just wants to experience life. Sheâs not afraid to show the lonely, sad, personal development, growth.âÂ
Emmaâs way of capturing mundane moments like making breakfast, grocery shopping, and driving make you feel like youâre spending the day with her. No judgements or pressure of making everything  In her video titled, âbedâ, Emma makes an interesting comment about simplicity: âWhatâs so bad about things being simple? Iâm not saying that like that you know you donât do anything crazy like you never go on a fun vacation, or you never go on a nice dinner, Iâm just saying, generally like 80% of the time life is just very mundane and boring. And thatâs not necessarily awful. It doesnât mean that youâre doing something wrong if your life is like that. It doesnât mean that your life sucks. Once I accepted that I enjoy having a more simple life, I actually enjoy it a lot more.â Â
This specific part of her video went viral on TikTok as a sound that people used to share their simple day-to-day activities. Emmaâs content shows us is that having a simple, boring, normal life is okay. Not every day will be a crazy adventure. From noticing the change in the treeâs colors, to singing along to your favorite songs while getting ready in the morning, to taking a sip of your favorite holiday drink at Starbucks, thereâs always a reason to smile. Â
Enjoying a mundane lifestyle requires you to find in simplicity. Â
So if youâre an introvert with few friends, we are on the same boat bestie! Journaling really helps with seeing joyful moments laid out on paper when life feels like it is showing favoritism to others. Iâve listed a few journaling prompts you can use (or just think about) whenever youâre feeling bummed out about lifeâs repetitiveness. Â
- List 3 people youâre grateful for and 3 things that spark joy in your life.Â
- Look around where you are at this very moment. What is one thing you can enjoy from your setting? Â
- What song gives you a âserotonin boostâ? What about the song makes you feel this way?Â
- Describe your own creation of a âhappy placeâ. Where is it? Whoâs in it (if there is anyone)? Which colors reminds you of it? What time of day would you visit? How often would you go there?Â