For single people, Valentine’s Day can be kind of a bummer. It’s not always fun seeing a collection of sentimental Snapchat stories and Instagram posts when you are not in love with anyone. However, this day does not have to be dreadful or depressing; there are ways to enjoy it.
So, if you do happen to be single on the day of love, try some or all of these five things to keep your spirits up:
1. Self-care day
As college students with busy schedules, we do not treat ourselves to self-care days nearly enough. We hardly eat. Our sleep schedules are a mess. And most of the time, we are just barely scraping by. Pampering yourself on Valentine’s Day is a great way to allow yourself some relaxation and reflection. You can go to the nail salon, dye or highlight your hair a new color, get a massage or even try a yoga class. This will help with any stress you may be under as well as refocus yourself on life.
2. Help a Friend in a Relationship with their Valentine’s Day Plans
Now I know this may seem a little masochistic, but hear me out. Helping your friends will always leave you feeling good. Although it may remind you that you are single, it could also restore your faith in love or simply just make you feel good to be supportive of your friend’s relationships. I’m not saying to go as far as third-wheeling the date, but help them brainstorm dinner plans or even gifts for their significant others. Putting others before yourself only helps to improve you as a person.
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3. Cook for yourself and have a night in
It is very possible that all your favorite restaurants will be filled with couples. Take some time to go grocery shopping and make all your favorite foods or a recipe you’ve been dying to try. While cooking, you can listen to your favorite music or even invite some of your single friends to keep you company. Make sure to leave room for dessert too!
4. Catch up on TV Shows
College can get so busy that your DVR may quickly overflow. Pop some popcorn, get comfortable with a warm blanket and start binging. You could even start a new show that’s been recommended to you or one that everyone has been watching recently. Whatever show you watch, you’ll be able to stop dodging spoilers on social media.
5. Hang out with other single friends
As the saying goes, “misery loves company.” However, if you are together with other single people, you may find yourself feeling less lonely. All of you can get take-out and have a movie or game night. Nothing can cure a bad mood like spending time with your girls. “Galentine’s Day,” right?
Whatever you do with your Valentine’s Day, try not to fall into “single sadness.” Remember, you are not the only person in the world alone on this holiday. Try to have some fun!