Regardless of whether you think you have found the one or if it has just been another one of those summer flings, the approach of the school year is imminent and both of you arenât moving to College Park. For a relationship, college can be a giant fork in the road if you and your significant other donât go to the same school. So which direction do you take? Break-Up Avenue or Long Distance Drive?
Personally, I believe that choosing to break it off is the right direction. Weâre young and in college with our entire lives ahead of us. Why take that extra baggage with you that you canât exactly store under the bed? Now donât get me wrong, Iâm not telling you to get buck wild in the single life. I just think that if you both agree to pause on things while youâre still on good terms, you can escape a lot of stress, and easily come back to it when you donât have to constantly worry about whatâs going on over at his school.
Also, depending on the depth of relationship, thereâs always the chance that your guy may not be as gung ho about your bond as you may be. Sean Grammick, a junior Criminology major, elaborates on his own experience in saying that even hard work may not be enough.
 âAny relationship is a two way street,â Grammick said. âEven if you are âin itâ 100%, especially in a college long distance relationship, chances are it wonât work out.â However, I also believe that if you trust that your relationship is strong enough to stand the separation, distractions, and lack of physical activity, then you should definitely follow your heart. As much as I donât trust the whole long distance idea, there are plenty of relationships that have successfully gone the distance and still remain stronger than ever.
Rachel Auerbach, a sophomore journalism and government double major, has one of those relationships that we can all envy. Today, her and her beau, Logan Singleton, have been together for a whopping one year and nine months. Last fall, Rachel began her freshman year here at UMD with Logan back at home in Jersey. This fall, Rachel has returned to UMD with the accomplishment of last yearâs long distance struggle keeping the couple positive for the upcoming school year.
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Whatâs her secret to success? Well, other than the nine, yes NINE, total visits made between the two of them, Skype seems to be their golden ticket. She explains, âSkyping helps the most because you get to see them and hear their voice; texting just isnât the same. At the same time you canât pick fights over stupid things, and you have to try to be understanding if theyâre really busy and canât come see you a lot and/or canât talk as much as youâd like. But definitely skype as much as you can.â
Auerbach also put emphasis on how amazing it is to finally be reunited. The appreciation and excitement toward each other is brought to new heights, which allows you both to truly cherish the relationship.
So, there you have it ladies! Although long distance college relationships may not be for everybody, you girls do not have to be in a Cinderella story in order to stay solid in your relationships. In the end, work toward your happiness over anything else!