Do you ever spend your days looking for a purpose?Ā
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Like seriously, why am I here? What am I doing today to contribute to society today? I started to notice these questions pop into my head at the age of 13, right around the time when I first started working.Ā
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The monotony of working a minimum wage job is painful, I know. Believe it or not, Iāve learned so much about life, people, and myself while tossing pizzas, slinging ice cream, and chasing children around a minigolf course.Ā
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Donāt get me wrong, minimum wage jobs suck sometimes. There is nothing glamorous about coming home at midnight with pizza sauce stuck in your hair at sixteen. Though, Iāve always liked working, and Iām glad I started when I was younger. Working throughout my younger years has definitely taught me critical life lessons that I will carry with me for the rest of my life.Ā
- Friendships Come in Odd PlacesĀ
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Working at the local pizza and ice cream shops was a lot of fun for me ā they were great high school jobs. My bosses were flexible and Iād make crazy good tips on busy nights. After I was hired, I immediately checked the schedule to see who Iād be working with. Full disclosure, the thought of some of my coworkers made me groan in disgust.Ā
After working a few shifts, I began to make the most unlikely friends. People I couldnāt stand quickly became friends who I trusted the most. I guess dealing with rude customers together from 5-11pm changes your perspective of a person. After making this liberating discovery, I quickly dropped the judge-a-book-by-its-cover act and allowed peopleās personalities to make the impressions.
- Money ManagementĀ
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Working a job will teach even the wildest of spenders how to stretch a buck. Once I started earning and spending my own money, I also learned how to budget, bargain-shop, and coupon. I installed a whole fleet of couponing apps on my phone, I discovered my love for thrifting, and I began monitoring my income in my planner.Ā
As I got older, I had more financial responsibilities and had to dedicate a portion of my paycheck to costs for my car and education. I independently paid for my own college prep programs in high school, as well as my AP exam fees. My parents always offered to cover the cost, but I felt better paying for it myself. Whatever money I had left over, I would stick in my savings for college or a rainy day.
- Donāt Dwell On Your Mistakes
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Honestly, Iāve always been a bit of a perfectionist ā and Iāll be the first to admit that itās a super annoying personality trait. I still remember the first pizza I messed up, where I forgot to put cheese on it before putting it in the oven. (Embarrassing, but hey, Iām human). Thankfully, my bosses are pretty chill and we just laughed it off as if nothing happened.Ā
For a while, I let little mistakes like that bother me. Seriously, Iād go home at night and think about how I gave a customer rainbow sprinkles on her cone instead of chocolate. After working these jobs for a little while longer, I stopped dwelling on my mistakes so much. Chances are, that three-year-old doesnāt know the difference between cookie dough and cookies ānā cream anyways. I realized that life goes on, no matter how many pizzas I mess up or cones I break.Ā
Thankfully, that attitude has stuck with me, even after I clock out.Ā
- Prioritize Carefully
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Iām definitely a workaholic. During the average week, Iād work five days as a sixteen-year-old. I didnāt have a problem with it most times, and often Iād pick up a few of those shifts for my coworkers. I liked the money, and it always gave me something to do.Ā
Looking back, I feel like I missed out on a lot due to my work laden schedule. Iād show up late to parties, Iād miss some of my favorite sporting events at school, and Iād even skip some family gatherings. Now, I have a better idea of how to balance work, fun, and school.Ā
Big paychecks are always rewarding, but money will never ever trump memories.
- Humility
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In my expert opinion, itās hard to be humble. Itās scientifically proven that we love to brag about ourselves. Working a minimum wage job will definitely knock you down a few pegs, though. Sometimes customers will attack you for just about anything.Ā
Iāve dealt with my fair share of āKarensā and, let me tell you, itās a humbling experience. This sounds totally awful, right? Wrong. Iām a better customer and person because of it. Whenever I go to Starbucks and the barista makes me a hot coffee instead of an iced one, what do I do? I say, āthank you!ā and go about my day. I always make sure to tip, even if it is just for carry out.Ā
You never understand how difficult it is until you’re the one behind the counter dealing with a dinner rush. Sometimes, a one-dollar tip can make a huge difference in someoneās workday.
I said it once and Iāll say it again: minimum wage jobs are not the most charming.Ā
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Iām not normally much of an optimist, but when it comes to work, Iām able to find some good in every situation. Working multiple minimum wage jobs has taught me so much and I will forever encourage high schoolers and college students to try one out while they can. Iām totally cool with working for $7.25 scooping ice cream for now. Once I get my fancy degree and first ābig girlā job, Iāll be sure to remember my roots. I wonāt forget to tip the girl at the carryout place, Iāll stack my plates for the waitress at every restaurant, and Iāll always include the words āpleaseā and āthank youā in my order.Ā