The concept of the âmental health dayâ appears to be a fairly new phenomenon. While the number of mental health awareness campaigns and anti-stigma movements increases, there continues to be an even greater social acceptance of the needs of those combatting with hidden illnesses. Considering that there are, nonetheless, many improvements still needing to be made by institutions (such as universities), the fight for the equitable recognition of all health conditions is not over yetâ progress is progress.
Whether you come from somewhere that doesnât legitimize your struggles, whether youâre scared of the social implications of discussing your illness, or whether youâre uncertain of the steps to take in order to receive help, I want you to know that your feelings are valid. More importantly, you and your needs are valid. So, if taking a mental health dayâ which, of course, will mean different things for different peopleâ is something that you think will benefit you, there is no embarrassment in doing so. In fact, here are some reasons why mental health days are worth taking.
1. Avoid the Burnout
Running faster and faster toward your goals and objectives may often appear to be the right (and only) thing to do; after all, thatâs what everyone else appears to be doing. This may cause us to fear that if we slow down or even pause, we will fall behind; however, one serious implication of constantly exerting 110% of your energy is that you can burnout. If you continuously push your breaking point, eventually, youâll reach it. Scheduling in time throughout the week to focus on the hobbies you love and people that bring you joy is a great way to make room for positive self-growth, while also taking care of your well-being.
2. Quality Time is Not Wasted Time
There is an unfortunate misconception that the time devoted to taking breaks from studying and work is wasted time, and I simply donât believe this to be true. While setting reasonable boundaries around the time you can afford to allocate to leisure has practical benefits, do not feel like you have to down a coffee or energy drink to force yourself to keep going. It may actually be more useful to take a quick nap or meditate for 15 minutes with the help of a free app, such as âCalmâ or âHeadspace.â As John Lennon said, âTime you enjoy wasting, was not wasted.â
3. Long-Term Productivity
Scientific findings have observed that the brain is a muscle that will tire from repeated stress. A productivity app used to track employeesâ computer use, called âDeskTimeâ, revealed that the most productive individuals tended to work for 52 consecutive minutes, followed by a 17-minute break. This suggests that those who work during long, uninterrupted periods of time arenât necessarily doing themselves a favour, with respect to productivity. If youâre finding that the pastimes you currently engage with arenât as fulfilling as they once were, this may mean that itâs time to explore new options. You donât have to wait until the new year to pursue a new interest.
4. âYou, Firstâ
Viewing yourself as a valuable investment can be quite challengingâ maybe it seems silly, or too abstract. Sometimes, however, the simplest and most obvious ideas right in front of us are the ones worth holding on to. My mother once told me something that I want to share with you: âIn list of importance, you come before your dreams and aspirations. You, first.â
If thereâs one thing to take away from this list, itâs that the feeling of being alone is one of the most universal sentiments there is. And I get it, some days are hard. Throughout times in your life, it may be difficult to see the light at the end of the tunnel⊠But itâs there, waiting for you. Even if that doesnât always seem to be the case, there is always help waiting for you. Whenever you are in need of a break or release of negative emotion, set aside some time to navigate the path that will most healthily allow you to do so. Itâs always worth it.
Mental health resources:
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Queenâs Peer Support Centre (034 John Deutsch University Centre, 99 University Ave)
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Queenâs Student Wellness Services mental health contact (mhp.sws@queensu.ca)
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AMHS-KFLA 24-hour crisis phone line (613-544-4229)