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Love Actually (is Everywhere)

The opinions expressed in this article are the writer’s own and do not reflect the views of Her Campus.
This article is written by a student writer from the Her Campus at SBU chapter.

With Valentine’s Day being this past week, love is on the brain. Roses and chocolates line the shelves of every store. Though this holiday is traditionally celebrated to honor romantic love, I typically take February 14th to celebrate all of the people I love in my life- and this is mainly platonic. When you look at all of the instances of love in your life, you’ll realize truly how loved and cherished you are. Here are my favorite snippets of love I am lucky enough to receive daily:

My parents

My parents were the first people who loved me. They are undoubtedly the most influential people in my life, and they lead by the way they love. One of the most important lessons my brother and I learned from my parents was love. My mother and father are the most loving people I know. They freely give love to strangers, friends and family without anything in return. 

My roommate

I hope everyone gets to experience the bond I have with my roommate Delainey at least once in their lifetime. There is nothing I love more than coming home to my best friend each night. Whether we are animatedly re-hashing the events of the day, grabbing food together or just enjoying each other’s company in silence, the energy in our room is full of love. The people you live with can make the biggest difference. I am forever grateful for my relationship with Delainey. It has brought me an abundance of love, happiness and fulfillment. 

My brother

Brother-sister love is a category of its own. It’s a complex relationship, but me and my brother have only gotten closer with age. My younger brother David means the world to me. Even though our childhood came with its fair share of bickering, David is now my go-to for advice, shared fashion and music recommendations. I cannot wait to see how he grows and evolves.   

professors

This one may seem odd; hear me out. I believe it’s part of the small school charm of St. Bonaventure University in that I experience a unique form of love from my professors here. It is found in their warm smiles, compassion and accessibility to help their students. Their doors and hearts are always open to students, even when it’s inconvenient for them. 

Strangers

One of my favorite and often overlooked sources of love is from strangers. All of the people we now love were once strangers. Some of my favorite smiles and compliments received have been from people I didn’t know. In my life, I try to be friendly and warm to each face I see and pay forward the love countless strangers have shown me. 

my dog

If you have a dog, you know just how precious their love is. My dog Max has been by my side since third grade. Dogs see you at your best and worst, giving you unconditional love regardless. This might be my favorite contender on the list.

Katie is a Junior at St. Bonaventure University. She is an executive board member for Her Campus at SBU. Her experience with social media, advertising, and writing allow her to combine her passions and advance her university's chapter of HC. She has been a part of Her Campus since freshman year. It has been her favorite on-campus extracurricular to become involved with. Katie is currently studying Strategic Communication and Marketing. She finds joy in being involved on campus through various organizations including Her Campus and Jandoli Women in Communication. Katie is both an Orientation Leader and a Peer Coach- she loves welcoming new students and helping them transition to college. She is also a full-time student ambassador who enthusiastically leads tours for prospective students. (Request her as your tour guide!) In her free time, you can find Katie reading, hiking, and laughing with her friends. She loves spending time outdoors, especially in the fall. Her kryptonite is iced coffee. Some of her favorite artists include Chris Stapleton, Fleetwood Mac, and Noah Kahan. Her favorite show is New Girl. Katie will eagerly engage in any conversation about her beloved hometown, Buffalo, New York. She will likely attempt to convert you to become a Buffalo Bills fan, and could talk about Josh Allen for hours. Post-grad, Katie hopes to be using her creative talents towards a fulfilling career in the world of advertising.