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After a long dance rehearsal, I was having dinner with my best friends from the university dance team. Everything was fine and everyone was content. Out of nowhere, I became very overwhelmed. I looked at my friend and told her how I was feeling. We ultimately decided the stress was coming from dancing for three hours straight. 

I excused myself to go back to my apartment for the night. When I was by myself, I broke down. There was nothing wrong and there was no need for these overwhelming feelings of anxiety. That’s when I realized I needed help. 

I’ve struggled with my anxiety for most of my life. I don’t know when these feelings of anxiety first started to happen, but I think they started around the time my dad was diagnosed with cancer — he’s better now, don’t you worry. 

I was eight years old and watching my dad, whom I love very much, become so sick that I didn’t recognize him. It was terrifying. This caused me to become attached to my mom’s hip. Being attached to my mom’s hip became an issue when she would have to leave me for a period of time. 

I would panic at the thought that she wasn’t coming back, that something happened to my dad, and things of the sort. 

When my dad went into remission before I started high school, we thought my anxiety would lessen. Since therapy wasn’t working and my parents didn’t want to put me on medication, they decided we would just ride it out. 

It didn’t work. 

Up until six months ago, my anxiety was manageable, but I would still have sudden bursts of anxiety that would last up to days at a time. Six months ago, my anxiety got worse. I stayed in a constant state of worry, to the point where I would become physically sick, stop eating and have interrupted sleep. 

After my post-dance panic attack, I decided I needed help. I called my mom, and she agreed that I should do something. She hesitated when I said I want to try medication, but she ultimately said it was okay. 

The phone call to my doctor was the scariest phone call I’ve ever made. I felt defeated asking for help, but I knew I was supported, and it was judgment-free. 

At this point of writing this article, I’ve been on medication for a few days, and I already see a change. So, it’s okay to get the help you’re scared to get. You got this. 

Morgan Kilger is a junior at St. Bonaventure University. She is from Buffalo, NY and is super excited to start her first year at Her Campus! She plans on writing about pop culture, current events and lifestyle. Morgan is most excited to join the sisterhood that Her Campus proudly portrays and write about things that she is passionate about on a safe platform. Morgan is a double major in history and women’s studies with a political science minor. She plans on pursuing a career in museum work. She dreams of one day working in either Washington D.C. or Salem, Massachusetts. You can also find Morgan working on campus as a student ambassador, the Features Editor for The Bona Venture — St. Bonaventure’s student-run newspaper — and in participating clubs like the SBU Dance Team and College Democrats. Morgan also enjoys volunteering at places like the local SPCA and the Olean Warming House in her free time. Outside of her Bonaventure life, Morgan enjoys several hobbies. She likes to play with her dogs Oliver and Lylah, read her favorite books for the millionth time and to watch Gilmore Girls — she’s team Logan. You can also find Morgan hanging out with her roommates for family dinners or having movie nights.