Many recent graduates are opting to move back in with their parents to reduce the sting of student loans. While this creates an awkward sense of dependence as an adult, it doesn’t have to hold you back from your full potential. Here are 5 ways to make the most out of living in your childhood home after graduation.
1. Don’t be ashamed
You are not alone, and you are not worse off or behind in life because of your situation. In fact, this may be the best thing you can do for yourself right now. Your value doesn’t lie solely within your ability to provide for yourself. It may feel like your peers are speeding ahead of you, but the timeline they’re on has a unique set of restrictions and responsibilities. While your restriction may be an 11:30pm curfew, your buddy can’t go out anyways because they have to pay their electricity bill – and they’re doing what’s best for themselves too!
2. Keep hustling
You have a unique set of responsibilities as well. Without the complete weight of bills to pay on your own, you can devote your time to building your future. Take this time to polish your resume and apply for that job you’ve been dreaming about. Don’t let the comfort of a safety net stop you from taking risks. Now is the perfect time to invest in your goals with no inhibitions.
3. Have patience
Self-sufficiency is the goal, and you’ll get there soon. In the meantime, build a future you can be proud of. Your goals aren’t meant to be reached in an instant. All the steps you’re taking now are giving value to your accomplishments. Have hope in the fact that you will someday reminisce with pride knowing your decisions had purpose and direction. Give yourself some kindness and patience.
4. Make friends
Your social life doesn’t end when you graduate. People you have yet to meet will love you and appreciate your company. Every second you sit in your bedroom thinking, “Wow, I wish I had someone to get food with right now,” there are at least fifty other people in your area thinking the exact same thing (not statistically proven, but probably). Join local sports teams, music groups, and other organized events if you prefer friends with the same interests. It is both motivating and comforting to be in community with people whose lives are also in motion.
5. Be thankful
Not everybody has the option of living under their parents’ wing. Although being financially dependent feels limiting at times, it is an absolute privilege. While you invest in your career and social life, don’t forget to invest in the relationship you have with those who are providing for you. Helping with chores and expressing your gratitude can go a long way.
You are exactly where you need to be, and there is so much life to be lived right now. There is no need to wait on your next checkpoint to start being intentional about your future.